Closest thing to sex without cheating? /u/Mr_Tomcat Sex

So yeah, I’m in a lovely long term relationship for ten years without complaints with a great woman. She’s smart, beautiful and literally the most complete and lush woman I’ve ever known. We have everything and love eachother deeply. The sex is great, and still getting even better but more than 3-4 times a week is not something I can expect from her, but what I need, more even now at 40 than when we started. I’m a bit more “perverted” and definitly more active than her and I need a honest way to satisfy myself better. Masturbation alone is not enough, I need more, she knows and doesn’t mind. She even said we could be open, but I don’t want that.

I tried dolls, fleshlights and camsex already, and eventhough they have their merits, I’m looking for something more real. Any ideas?

So yeah, I’m in a lovely long term relationship for ten years without complaints with a great woman. She’s smart, beautiful and literally the most complete and lush woman I’ve ever known. We have everything and love eachother deeply. The sex is great, and still getting even better but more than 3-4 times a week is not something I can expect from her, but what I need, more even now at 40 than when we started. I’m a bit more “perverted” and definitly more active than her and I need a honest way to satisfy myself better. Masturbation alone is not enough, I need more, she knows and doesn’t mind. She even said we could be open, but I don’t want that.

I tried dolls, fleshlights and camsex already, and eventhough they have their merits, I’m looking for something more real. Any ideas?