Please help [19M] /u/clutchup19 Sex

I’m writing this with a beautiful woman in bed next to me, asleep and upset. Her and her friend drove an hour to see my roommate and I, specifically for sex (or so it seems). She was throwing some hints, and I tried to make a couple advances but maybe I wasn’t clear enough, Idk. However, once she started throwing more hints, I lost all sex drive that I had previously and decided sleep was the best option. What makes things worse is a few minutes later we start to hear my roommate and her friend going at it. At this point I had already resigned and chose to go to sleep for the night, and was in no mood. I just feel like somethings wrong with me. It feels like I have a lower sex drive than other men my age and I hate it. I feel completely emasculated right now and want to just hide myself away. I hate that I’m sending this girl home disappointed, and she was clearly disappointed. This ain’t the first time I’ve failed to show up either, but I digress. Idk if I was nervous or what, but I do have a history of performance anxiety in my past. I just need help before lend up giving up on sex altogether. How do 1 get over this performance anxiety without spending all types of money on a shrink? I want to have sex bad, but it seems like I have an excuse every tine it is time to go. Anybody please just help me,

I’m writing this with a beautiful woman in bed next to me, asleep and upset. Her and her friend drove an hour to see my roommate and I, specifically for sex (or so it seems). She was throwing some hints, and I tried to make a couple advances but maybe I wasn’t clear enough, Idk. However, once she started throwing more hints, I lost all sex drive that I had previously and decided sleep was the best option. What makes things worse is a few minutes later we start to hear my roommate and her friend going at it. At this point I had already resigned and chose to go to sleep for the night, and was in no mood. I just feel like somethings wrong with me. It feels like I have a lower sex drive than other men my age and I hate it. I feel completely emasculated right now and want to just hide myself away. I hate that I’m sending this girl home disappointed, and she was clearly disappointed. This ain’t the first time I’ve failed to show up either, but I digress. Idk if I was nervous or what, but I do have a history of performance anxiety in my past. I just need help before lend up giving up on sex altogether. How do 1 get over this performance anxiety without spending all types of money on a shrink? I want to have sex bad, but it seems like I have an excuse every tine it is time to go. Anybody please just help me,