She [25F] feels ashamed/weird to finish while I’m [30M] going down on her /u/fake_online_account Sex

Hi all,

I guess I have to preface this by saying that she was a virgin before me as it might be relevant. Weirdly enough, since the moment we had sex for the first time, it feels like I unlocked something in her and she has been asking me to try out all kinds of stuff and we even did anal. I’m mentioning this in order to show that in regards to other things, she’s been open to doing lots of things and even she herself is suggesting to try out some stuff.

Anyway, I’ve talked with her about going down on her, and after some foreplay I’ve been doing that too, and having fun while giving her a good time. We’ve talked about it and we’re pretty open about what each one likes and wants, so in that regard, it’s all great and she even pulls my head toward herself while I’m down there and hitting the right spots. But… every time she is about to orgasm from me going down on her, she would stop me, push my head away and pull me up so we would kiss instead, which would be followed by her asking me to go for PIV. I’ve talked to her about it and she says she feels kinda weird/ashamed to orgasm in front of someone still.

So, my question is how I could go about making it easier for her to not feel that way about orgasming in front of me? I’ve talked to her about it and told her that I’d love her to be able to freely feel as great finishing with me, just as I am with her but I’d still like to hear some advice on things I can do/say.

Hi all,

I guess I have to preface this by saying that she was a virgin before me as it might be relevant. Weirdly enough, since the moment we had sex for the first time, it feels like I unlocked something in her and she has been asking me to try out all kinds of stuff and we even did anal. I’m mentioning this in order to show that in regards to other things, she’s been open to doing lots of things and even she herself is suggesting to try out some stuff.

Anyway, I’ve talked with her about going down on her, and after some foreplay I’ve been doing that too, and having fun while giving her a good time. We’ve talked about it and we’re pretty open about what each one likes and wants, so in that regard, it’s all great and she even pulls my head toward herself while I’m down there and hitting the right spots. But… every time she is about to orgasm from me going down on her, she would stop me, push my head away and pull me up so we would kiss instead, which would be followed by her asking me to go for PIV. I’ve talked to her about it and she says she feels kinda weird/ashamed to orgasm in front of someone still.

So, my question is how I could go about making it easier for her to not feel that way about orgasming in front of me? I’ve talked to her about it and told her that I’d love her to be able to freely feel as great finishing with me, just as I am with her but I’d still like to hear some advice on things I can do/say.