I really want my partner to dominate me but I don’t know how to ask /u/Ok-Manufacturer-8109 Sex

My partner (M, 26) and I (F, 25) have been having sex for a very long time. It usually starts with a bit of kissing, then a blowjob, and then either cowgirl or missionary until we both orgasm. It’s nice, it’s very pleasurable, but I cannot stop thinking about the idea of his dominating me, choking me and slapping me around, Calling me a slut and practically using me.

I’ve never once brought this up before, and he knows that I’ve had some past sexual relationship trauma and is very weary about it when we are intimate. And he’s an incredibly sweet and sensitive person, how do I bring this up/ask him to do it? (Ps not interested in any third person/polyamory)

My partner (M, 26) and I (F, 25) have been having sex for a very long time. It usually starts with a bit of kissing, then a blowjob, and then either cowgirl or missionary until we both orgasm. It’s nice, it’s very pleasurable, but I cannot stop thinking about the idea of his dominating me, choking me and slapping me around, Calling me a slut and practically using me.

I’ve never once brought this up before, and he knows that I’ve had some past sexual relationship trauma and is very weary about it when we are intimate. And he’s an incredibly sweet and sensitive person, how do I bring this up/ask him to do it? (Ps not interested in any third person/polyamory)