I seem to have this issue where sex leaves me connected to people. After a long time of not being with anyone, I slept with this guy a couple of times on a casual basis. He was so kind and gentle with me in the sense that he checked if I was comfortable and asked for consent to do things which no one has ever done for me before. This has left me with a lot of sexual trauma from where I have always felt very used after sex. This time I haven’t felt used and because of that, I’ve fallen for him. I’ve had to stop seeing him as that isn’t what we agreed. Does anyone have any tips on how to prevent this from happening?
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r/sex I seem to have this issue where sex leaves me connected to people. After a long time of not being with anyone, I slept with this guy a couple of times on a casual basis. He was so kind and gentle with me in the sense that he checked if I was comfortable and asked for consent to do things which no one has ever done for me before. This has left me with a lot of sexual trauma from where I have always felt very used after sex. This time I haven’t felt used and because of that, I’ve fallen for him. I’ve had to stop seeing him as that isn’t what we agreed. Does anyone have any tips on how to prevent this from happening? submitted by /u/AvenueLane96 [link] [comments]
I seem to have this issue where sex leaves me connected to people. After a long time of not being with anyone, I slept with this guy a couple of times on a casual basis. He was so kind and gentle with me in the sense that he checked if I was comfortable and asked for consent to do things which no one has ever done for me before. This has left me with a lot of sexual trauma from where I have always felt very used after sex. This time I haven’t felt used and because of that, I’ve fallen for him. I’ve had to stop seeing him as that isn’t what we agreed. Does anyone have any tips on how to prevent this from happening?
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