I can’t find a dildo small enough for me (suggestions are appreciated) /u/AlbinoAlphaWolf Sex

I (female, 22) have been having a lot of difficulties with finding the right dildo for myself and I am getting very frustrated/discouraged. Every time I find one advertised as “realistic” or “slim” it turns out to be this huge dildo that is painful to put inside me. I’m not tight by any means (probably average) though I can’t stand the feeling of being stretched and having my insides rearranged. It hurts too much! Does anyone else have this problem or is it just a me thing? And does anyone have any recommendations for a realistic dildo? To clarify, when I say realistic I mean length/width. I’m fine with it being a bit longer/wider than average, that’s fine, but I’m not looking for anything extreme. It doesn’t have to be human-looking either, fantasy dildos are also fine. I’m more concerned with width than anything else since that’s what’s causing me the trouble/pain. For context, the smallest dildo I could find (and own) is this one called a slim 7 but it’s far from slim, it is unrealistically large (for me anyway). If it had a little less width it would be fine. I use lube with it but it still hurts since it’s a bit big for me. Does anyone have any recommendations for a dildo for me? I tried looking for something that would work for me but I can’t find anything smaller than what I have now and I’m feeling very discouraged.

I (female, 22) have been having a lot of difficulties with finding the right dildo for myself and I am getting very frustrated/discouraged. Every time I find one advertised as “realistic” or “slim” it turns out to be this huge dildo that is painful to put inside me. I’m not tight by any means (probably average) though I can’t stand the feeling of being stretched and having my insides rearranged. It hurts too much! Does anyone else have this problem or is it just a me thing? And does anyone have any recommendations for a realistic dildo? To clarify, when I say realistic I mean length/width. I’m fine with it being a bit longer/wider than average, that’s fine, but I’m not looking for anything extreme. It doesn’t have to be human-looking either, fantasy dildos are also fine. I’m more concerned with width than anything else since that’s what’s causing me the trouble/pain. For context, the smallest dildo I could find (and own) is this one called a slim 7 but it’s far from slim, it is unrealistically large (for me anyway). If it had a little less width it would be fine. I use lube with it but it still hurts since it’s a bit big for me. Does anyone have any recommendations for a dildo for me? I tried looking for something that would work for me but I can’t find anything smaller than what I have now and I’m feeling very discouraged.