My whole life I’ve been romantically and sexually attracted to men, but lately I’ve realized that even if I have those “urges”, I don’t really like men that often in day to day life because of bad experiences or their character just doesn’t fit my emotional needs.
While with women its mostly infantuation and romantic interest, I’m not sure it I’d see myself sleeping with them but watching wlw stuff does turn me on. I have a lesbian friend and she has shown real interest in me to the point that my friends are joking about it all the time about how obvious it is. And at first I just found it sweet but how she treats me makes me feel so loved. I haven’t done anything physical with her or even talked about my feelings because I’m so unsure at the moment but she’s so “leading” and makes me feel cared for (while with men I’m scared it comes off as needy) she embraces that side of me.
But I’m scared that its mostly a selfish thing because if I imagine myself sleeping with her I mostly see myself as the receiver instead of like going down on her, so I don’t want to lead her on. This also proves that I’m romantically/emotionally more inclined towards girls but sexually/physically more towards men. So dating either one or the other feels like I’m being fake or unfair. Anyone with similar feelings or advice pls? 🙁
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r/sex My whole life I’ve been romantically and sexually attracted to men, but lately I’ve realized that even if I have those “urges”, I don’t really like men that often in day to day life because of bad experiences or their character just doesn’t fit my emotional needs. While with women its mostly infantuation and romantic interest, I’m not sure it I’d see myself sleeping with them but watching wlw stuff does turn me on. I have a lesbian friend and she has shown real interest in me to the point that my friends are joking about it all the time about how obvious it is. And at first I just found it sweet but how she treats me makes me feel so loved. I haven’t done anything physical with her or even talked about my feelings because I’m so unsure at the moment but she’s so “leading” and makes me feel cared for (while with men I’m scared it comes off as needy) she embraces that side of me. But I’m scared that its mostly a selfish thing because if I imagine myself sleeping with her I mostly see myself as the receiver instead of like going down on her, so I don’t want to lead her on. This also proves that I’m romantically/emotionally more inclined towards girls but sexually/physically more towards men. So dating either one or the other feels like I’m being fake or unfair. Anyone with similar feelings or advice pls? 🙁 submitted by /u/snnnxoxo [link] [comments]
My whole life I’ve been romantically and sexually attracted to men, but lately I’ve realized that even if I have those “urges”, I don’t really like men that often in day to day life because of bad experiences or their character just doesn’t fit my emotional needs.
While with women its mostly infantuation and romantic interest, I’m not sure it I’d see myself sleeping with them but watching wlw stuff does turn me on. I have a lesbian friend and she has shown real interest in me to the point that my friends are joking about it all the time about how obvious it is. And at first I just found it sweet but how she treats me makes me feel so loved. I haven’t done anything physical with her or even talked about my feelings because I’m so unsure at the moment but she’s so “leading” and makes me feel cared for (while with men I’m scared it comes off as needy) she embraces that side of me.
But I’m scared that its mostly a selfish thing because if I imagine myself sleeping with her I mostly see myself as the receiver instead of like going down on her, so I don’t want to lead her on. This also proves that I’m romantically/emotionally more inclined towards girls but sexually/physically more towards men. So dating either one or the other feels like I’m being fake or unfair. Anyone with similar feelings or advice pls? 🙁
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