How can I (F20) treat him (M30) with some dominance in the bedroom when I find it so difficult? /u/Curious-Nothing6234 Sex

Normally in our relationship, he’s taken control and power all the time. Every time we have sex, it’s all about living out my fantasies. He listens to what I want, works that into his dirty talk and what he does, and makes me quivering mess before he even thinks about getting himself off. A lot of what I’ve told him I like involves being dominated and tied up. But I feel so inactive and selfish in bed. I just kinda lie there, immobilized while he talks to and pleasures me til I cum.

I want to be more active and enthusiastic and confident in bed. And maybe try a little dominance, if he would like to. But every time I try, I stutter and get nervous and I don’t know what to do or say. How can I get over that anxiety and what can I say/do to ease into being dominant?

Normally in our relationship, he’s taken control and power all the time. Every time we have sex, it’s all about living out my fantasies. He listens to what I want, works that into his dirty talk and what he does, and makes me quivering mess before he even thinks about getting himself off. A lot of what I’ve told him I like involves being dominated and tied up. But I feel so inactive and selfish in bed. I just kinda lie there, immobilized while he talks to and pleasures me til I cum.

I want to be more active and enthusiastic and confident in bed. And maybe try a little dominance, if he would like to. But every time I try, I stutter and get nervous and I don’t know what to do or say. How can I get over that anxiety and what can I say/do to ease into being dominant?