Is this edging or dominating? /u/Janesssss Sex

By total accident I found out I enjoy my husband using my body to masturbate with.

We’ve been together for 10+ years and have a healthy sex life with my husband always making sure my needs are met. I can count on one hand the number of times he couldn’t make me orgasm. We had our first baby (6ish months ago) and it’s been hard to make time for sex.

Recently we were in the middle of sex when baby started to fuss so I told him to finish quickly and that he could get me off later. The feeling of him quickly using my body to orgasm and not getting me off was amazing. I was so turned on by it that later when he went to reciprocate I stopped him. I asked him if we could do this for the rest of that week(it was a Mon) and I wouldn’t get to orgasm until the weekend. I think my exact words were to use me like a cum rag like the dirty whore I am. He was also turned on by this and it was an amazing week. Usually we only have sex 1-2 a week and that week we did it every night.

I think initially it was edging but as the week went on my husband really got into it and was much more dominating than usual, it was so sexy. I got to see what he really likes to do during sex when he gets to focus only on himself. And he felt free to try some new things and use some more dirty language.

So now I’m not sure what it’s considered or what I should look into because we both want to try some new things in this area. So which one is it and any suggestions on what to do next?

By total accident I found out I enjoy my husband using my body to masturbate with.

We’ve been together for 10+ years and have a healthy sex life with my husband always making sure my needs are met. I can count on one hand the number of times he couldn’t make me orgasm. We had our first baby (6ish months ago) and it’s been hard to make time for sex.

Recently we were in the middle of sex when baby started to fuss so I told him to finish quickly and that he could get me off later. The feeling of him quickly using my body to orgasm and not getting me off was amazing. I was so turned on by it that later when he went to reciprocate I stopped him. I asked him if we could do this for the rest of that week(it was a Mon) and I wouldn’t get to orgasm until the weekend. I think my exact words were to use me like a cum rag like the dirty whore I am. He was also turned on by this and it was an amazing week. Usually we only have sex 1-2 a week and that week we did it every night.

I think initially it was edging but as the week went on my husband really got into it and was much more dominating than usual, it was so sexy. I got to see what he really likes to do during sex when he gets to focus only on himself. And he felt free to try some new things and use some more dirty language.

So now I’m not sure what it’s considered or what I should look into because we both want to try some new things in this area. So which one is it and any suggestions on what to do next?