Advice request: mismatch libido compromise? /u/No_Reality_7251 Sex

Straight, married.

Currently we have “romantic sex” twice a week. It’s good for both us.

Husband would really like “something” everyday. Even two times a weeks is more than I desire.

I am considering offering to, for lack of a better term, be a sex doll in the morning. He always wakes up hard. So on days we don’t have a “date night” planned, I’m thinking to let him just “go at it” as long as I don’t have to put in any effort.

Has anyone tried this? Did it led to self esteem problems of feeling like a sex object, only? Just being used?

I am sure this is a kink for some people so no need to reply, “I’d love it / lucky guy” whatever.

I’m interested in people who may have tried this compromise and how long it lasted and if it worked or just led to more problems.

No need for conjecture. If you haven’t been in this situation, rather than comment, I would appreciate an upvote to help maybe get this to people who have been in this situation and tried this ”solution “.

I haven’t brought it up to my husband yet because I’m not sure how I feel about it and don’t want to offer something then later “take it away” if it is an obvious dead end.

Thanks in advance.

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​r/sex Straight, married. Currently we have “romantic sex” twice a week. It’s good for both us. Husband would really like “something” everyday. Even two times a weeks is more than I desire. I am considering offering to, for lack of a better term, be a sex doll in the morning. He always wakes up hard. So on days we don’t have a “date night” planned, I’m thinking to let him just “go at it” as long as I don’t have to put in any effort. Has anyone tried this? Did it led to self esteem problems of feeling like a sex object, only? Just being used? I am sure this is a kink for some people so no need to reply, “I’d love it / lucky guy” whatever. I’m interested in people who may have tried this compromise and how long it lasted and if it worked or just led to more problems. No need for conjecture. If you haven’t been in this situation, rather than comment, I would appreciate an upvote to help maybe get this to people who have been in this situation and tried this ”solution “. I haven’t brought it up to my husband yet because I’m not sure how I feel about it and don’t want to offer something then later “take it away” if it is an obvious dead end. Thanks in advance. submitted by /u/No_Reality_7251 [link] [comments] 

Straight, married.

Currently we have “romantic sex” twice a week. It’s good for both us.

Husband would really like “something” everyday. Even two times a weeks is more than I desire.

I am considering offering to, for lack of a better term, be a sex doll in the morning. He always wakes up hard. So on days we don’t have a “date night” planned, I’m thinking to let him just “go at it” as long as I don’t have to put in any effort.

Has anyone tried this? Did it led to self esteem problems of feeling like a sex object, only? Just being used?

I am sure this is a kink for some people so no need to reply, “I’d love it / lucky guy” whatever.

I’m interested in people who may have tried this compromise and how long it lasted and if it worked or just led to more problems.

No need for conjecture. If you haven’t been in this situation, rather than comment, I would appreciate an upvote to help maybe get this to people who have been in this situation and tried this ”solution “.

I haven’t brought it up to my husband yet because I’m not sure how I feel about it and don’t want to offer something then later “take it away” if it is an obvious dead end.

Thanks in advance.

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