I’m 25F in healthcare (recent med grad) and my dating life isn’t great. In the past my relationships have been guys who are great on paper, but too mild mannered and passive during sex. It’s gotten to the point where I stopped putting my job on dating apps because it just seems to bring brainy types who don’t like to take charge. I feel like I’m in a field where a bunch of people are stoic, sapiosexuals and I am….not.
I want to meet a guy who’s confident and able to dominate me, lets me feel feminine and and desired – I just find that so so hot. I think it’s the biggest thing I crave from a romantic relationship. Otherwise It’s just a friendship. I’ve dated guys who meet me in all other ways – financially, mentally, emotionally. But the sex wasn’t good.
Am I presenting wrong? I don’t think I give abrasive energy I’m very girly and petite, and keep fit, maybe I don’t look slutty enough? Bikini pics? Does that signal ‘hoe’ and not ‘girlfriend’ tho. I get hit on at bars when no one knows what the fuck I do, but that insta chemistry doesn’t go past short term
How do I communicate to guys that I don’t want intellectual discussions but want to be thrown around in bed and have my ass smacked like a drum
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r/sex I’m 25F in healthcare (recent med grad) and my dating life isn’t great. In the past my relationships have been guys who are great on paper, but too mild mannered and passive during sex. It’s gotten to the point where I stopped putting my job on dating apps because it just seems to bring brainy types who don’t like to take charge. I feel like I’m in a field where a bunch of people are stoic, sapiosexuals and I am….not. I want to meet a guy who’s confident and able to dominate me, lets me feel feminine and and desired – I just find that so so hot. I think it’s the biggest thing I crave from a romantic relationship. Otherwise It’s just a friendship. I’ve dated guys who meet me in all other ways – financially, mentally, emotionally. But the sex wasn’t good. Am I presenting wrong? I don’t think I give abrasive energy I’m very girly and petite, and keep fit, maybe I don’t look slutty enough? Bikini pics? Does that signal ‘hoe’ and not ‘girlfriend’ tho. I get hit on at bars when no one knows what the fuck I do, but that insta chemistry doesn’t go past short term How do I communicate to guys that I don’t want intellectual discussions but want to be thrown around in bed and have my ass smacked like a drum submitted by /u/cnmkgfvjjgcv [link] [comments]
I’m 25F in healthcare (recent med grad) and my dating life isn’t great. In the past my relationships have been guys who are great on paper, but too mild mannered and passive during sex. It’s gotten to the point where I stopped putting my job on dating apps because it just seems to bring brainy types who don’t like to take charge. I feel like I’m in a field where a bunch of people are stoic, sapiosexuals and I am….not.
I want to meet a guy who’s confident and able to dominate me, lets me feel feminine and and desired – I just find that so so hot. I think it’s the biggest thing I crave from a romantic relationship. Otherwise It’s just a friendship. I’ve dated guys who meet me in all other ways – financially, mentally, emotionally. But the sex wasn’t good.
Am I presenting wrong? I don’t think I give abrasive energy I’m very girly and petite, and keep fit, maybe I don’t look slutty enough? Bikini pics? Does that signal ‘hoe’ and not ‘girlfriend’ tho. I get hit on at bars when no one knows what the fuck I do, but that insta chemistry doesn’t go past short term
How do I communicate to guys that I don’t want intellectual discussions but want to be thrown around in bed and have my ass smacked like a drum
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