i’ve recently came out as a lesbian but am inexperienced with lesbian sex…help? /u/caitlynjewelzz Sex

So I, 24f met my partner 21f last july, we’d met at a concert and we both discussed how we are queer women/wlw but how we both were super inexperienced with having sex with the same gender. we’d make jokes about “oh if it was just a one time thing and I was bad at it I guess it wouldn’t matter” well….we didn’t do anything when we were in the hotel room I was staying at (I drove many states away for this specific artist). Other than making out and clothes on touching we didn’t do anything (which I regret) bc we both ended up liking each other a lot and now we’re supposed to meet up again in April (long distance relationship). I know I would enjoy having sex with my partner, and I know I’m a lesbian, but I still want to give an enjoyable performance (I’m very much a top/giver/instigator etc) any tips? Obviously porn isn’t a good source, so I’m asking here for sex tips for giving head/digital sex/possibly sex toys.

So I, 24f met my partner 21f last july, we’d met at a concert and we both discussed how we are queer women/wlw but how we both were super inexperienced with having sex with the same gender. we’d make jokes about “oh if it was just a one time thing and I was bad at it I guess it wouldn’t matter” well….we didn’t do anything when we were in the hotel room I was staying at (I drove many states away for this specific artist). Other than making out and clothes on touching we didn’t do anything (which I regret) bc we both ended up liking each other a lot and now we’re supposed to meet up again in April (long distance relationship). I know I would enjoy having sex with my partner, and I know I’m a lesbian, but I still want to give an enjoyable performance (I’m very much a top/giver/instigator etc) any tips? Obviously porn isn’t a good source, so I’m asking here for sex tips for giving head/digital sex/possibly sex toys.