For context, I have been on a date with a guy I met online twice. There’s a lot of mutual attraction and so much passion, and lots of making out lol. Things are already heated between us in these two dates, and my date has hinted a couple of times that he’s interested in taking it to the next level aka sex! I have never given dating so much significance in my life until now so I am still a virgin despite being 28, and I’ve been insecure about this many times before like most people. I’m not religious or what they say “unattractive” …it just never happened because I wasn’t actively looking.
I’m really attracted to this guy and I really like him which is very important to me so I’m ready to take it to the next level with him but the thing is I haven’t told him about being a virgin yet. Tbh, I’m slightly scared to see how he’ll react if we ever come up to that point, (which I’m pretty sure will be the next date!) So..How should I prepare for my first time ever? I can’t talk about this to my friends so I’d really appreciate some insights to this situation. I’m not on a birth control, is it necessary if we’re using a condom?? How do I make sure I’m “good in bed”, even though it’s my first time ever! Lol.
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r/sex For context, I have been on a date with a guy I met online twice. There’s a lot of mutual attraction and so much passion, and lots of making out lol. Things are already heated between us in these two dates, and my date has hinted a couple of times that he’s interested in taking it to the next level aka sex! I have never given dating so much significance in my life until now so I am still a virgin despite being 28, and I’ve been insecure about this many times before like most people. I’m not religious or what they say “unattractive” …it just never happened because I wasn’t actively looking. I’m really attracted to this guy and I really like him which is very important to me so I’m ready to take it to the next level with him but the thing is I haven’t told him about being a virgin yet. Tbh, I’m slightly scared to see how he’ll react if we ever come up to that point, (which I’m pretty sure will be the next date!) So..How should I prepare for my first time ever? I can’t talk about this to my friends so I’d really appreciate some insights to this situation. I’m not on a birth control, is it necessary if we’re using a condom?? How do I make sure I’m “good in bed”, even though it’s my first time ever! Lol. submitted by /u/magicsepler20 [link] [comments]
For context, I have been on a date with a guy I met online twice. There’s a lot of mutual attraction and so much passion, and lots of making out lol. Things are already heated between us in these two dates, and my date has hinted a couple of times that he’s interested in taking it to the next level aka sex! I have never given dating so much significance in my life until now so I am still a virgin despite being 28, and I’ve been insecure about this many times before like most people. I’m not religious or what they say “unattractive” …it just never happened because I wasn’t actively looking.
I’m really attracted to this guy and I really like him which is very important to me so I’m ready to take it to the next level with him but the thing is I haven’t told him about being a virgin yet. Tbh, I’m slightly scared to see how he’ll react if we ever come up to that point, (which I’m pretty sure will be the next date!) So..How should I prepare for my first time ever? I can’t talk about this to my friends so I’d really appreciate some insights to this situation. I’m not on a birth control, is it necessary if we’re using a condom?? How do I make sure I’m “good in bed”, even though it’s my first time ever! Lol.
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