Recently my boyfriend has been more ‘experimental’ in the bedroom, which basically means he’s been being a lot more rough in the bedroom, as well as pulling my hair or initiating sex really suddenly. Eg. Recently I was leaving against the counter while watching something on my phone, and he came up behind me and pulled up my skirt really suddenly.
Tbh it doesn’t turn me on, and I find it shocking and jarring rather than sexy. But I don’t want to tell him because I don’t want to come off as vanilla and boring. Yes, I know that my consent is more important, but it does feel embarrassing to admit I can’t tolerate a bit of roughness in the bedroom.
How do I break it to him without hurting his feelings?
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r/sex Recently my boyfriend has been more ‘experimental’ in the bedroom, which basically means he’s been being a lot more rough in the bedroom, as well as pulling my hair or initiating sex really suddenly. Eg. Recently I was leaving against the counter while watching something on my phone, and he came up behind me and pulled up my skirt really suddenly. Tbh it doesn’t turn me on, and I find it shocking and jarring rather than sexy. But I don’t want to tell him because I don’t want to come off as vanilla and boring. Yes, I know that my consent is more important, but it does feel embarrassing to admit I can’t tolerate a bit of roughness in the bedroom. How do I break it to him without hurting his feelings? submitted by /u/maewinters [link] [comments]
Recently my boyfriend has been more ‘experimental’ in the bedroom, which basically means he’s been being a lot more rough in the bedroom, as well as pulling my hair or initiating sex really suddenly. Eg. Recently I was leaving against the counter while watching something on my phone, and he came up behind me and pulled up my skirt really suddenly.
Tbh it doesn’t turn me on, and I find it shocking and jarring rather than sexy. But I don’t want to tell him because I don’t want to come off as vanilla and boring. Yes, I know that my consent is more important, but it does feel embarrassing to admit I can’t tolerate a bit of roughness in the bedroom.
How do I break it to him without hurting his feelings?
submitted by /u/maewinters
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