We have been together for several weeks. Every time we try to have sex, he goes near my vagina and completely loses his erection in 2 seconds. We only had penetrative sex once, it lasted for a few seconds until he lost his election and it came out of me.
He has no issue getting and maintaining an erection. He can cum by handjob and blowjob completely fine.
Last time, I was on my period so PIV was off the table anyway. I hoped if the erection issues were due to anxiety, then this would be an opportunity to relax a little knowing I wasn’t expecting PIV. He suggested he rub his penis on my vulva. His erection lasted about a minute until he completely lost it. He backed off, I touched it with my hand, he got an erection again and was able to maintain it.
I also want to have children in the future and I’m worried this won’t be able to happen with him.
Can anyone advise what is happening? I really want to have sex with my boyfriend. I find PIV the most pleasurable and for me, it’s something that helps me feel bonded and secure. I assume it’s not a medical issue as his erection is fine most of the time. I’ve tried to help his nerves by doing things that make us more comfortable, I always compliment him, I tell him how sexy he is. He doesn’t seem nervous. What can I do?
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r/sex We have been together for several weeks. Every time we try to have sex, he goes near my vagina and completely loses his erection in 2 seconds. We only had penetrative sex once, it lasted for a few seconds until he lost his election and it came out of me. He has no issue getting and maintaining an erection. He can cum by handjob and blowjob completely fine. Last time, I was on my period so PIV was off the table anyway. I hoped if the erection issues were due to anxiety, then this would be an opportunity to relax a little knowing I wasn’t expecting PIV. He suggested he rub his penis on my vulva. His erection lasted about a minute until he completely lost it. He backed off, I touched it with my hand, he got an erection again and was able to maintain it. I also want to have children in the future and I’m worried this won’t be able to happen with him. Can anyone advise what is happening? I really want to have sex with my boyfriend. I find PIV the most pleasurable and for me, it’s something that helps me feel bonded and secure. I assume it’s not a medical issue as his erection is fine most of the time. I’ve tried to help his nerves by doing things that make us more comfortable, I always compliment him, I tell him how sexy he is. He doesn’t seem nervous. What can I do? submitted by /u/OldMotherDemdike [link] [comments]
We have been together for several weeks. Every time we try to have sex, he goes near my vagina and completely loses his erection in 2 seconds. We only had penetrative sex once, it lasted for a few seconds until he lost his election and it came out of me.
He has no issue getting and maintaining an erection. He can cum by handjob and blowjob completely fine.
Last time, I was on my period so PIV was off the table anyway. I hoped if the erection issues were due to anxiety, then this would be an opportunity to relax a little knowing I wasn’t expecting PIV. He suggested he rub his penis on my vulva. His erection lasted about a minute until he completely lost it. He backed off, I touched it with my hand, he got an erection again and was able to maintain it.
I also want to have children in the future and I’m worried this won’t be able to happen with him.
Can anyone advise what is happening? I really want to have sex with my boyfriend. I find PIV the most pleasurable and for me, it’s something that helps me feel bonded and secure. I assume it’s not a medical issue as his erection is fine most of the time. I’ve tried to help his nerves by doing things that make us more comfortable, I always compliment him, I tell him how sexy he is. He doesn’t seem nervous. What can I do?
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