Hello everyone,
I am a guy in my mid 20s and I recently got together with my gf. Before her I had no previous sexual encounters whereas she is more experienced. I would consider myself as low libido and don’t masturbate very frequently. The first time went maybe as expected. I couldn’t get hard and it was super awkward. It still freaked me out and I went to my GP who basically said that it’s normal and maybe I should masturbate more to get more used to it. I still ordered viagra. With the use of viagra I was incredibly aroused but couldn’t finish at all. The next times (without viagra) went as follows. I would cum extremely quickly in Round 1 but would get better in Round 2. About two weeks I was even able to go about 2 minutes in round 1 and then in Round 2 I actually didn’t cum at all but was a longer session. Last week we didn’t have sex. My problem is that the last 2 times I came basically while inserting my penis in Round 1 the first time and after about 30 seconds the second time. However, I couldn’t get a Round 2 going. This is incredibly frustrating to me and my girlfriend, who has been extremely supportive until this point, is getting more irritated. For her sex is very important while for me it is definitely great but not that important. Not being able to properly please her, is killing me. She also doesn’t really like foreplay or me trying to make her cum in another way so I am really at loss. I think you can only get better at it by trying it more but I am just getting more and more anxious. It is starting to feel more like a chore and not like something you’re supposed to enjoy. Any advice? Is this just normal for someone inexperienced like myself?
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r/sex Hello everyone, I am a guy in my mid 20s and I recently got together with my gf. Before her I had no previous sexual encounters whereas she is more experienced. I would consider myself as low libido and don’t masturbate very frequently. The first time went maybe as expected. I couldn’t get hard and it was super awkward. It still freaked me out and I went to my GP who basically said that it’s normal and maybe I should masturbate more to get more used to it. I still ordered viagra. With the use of viagra I was incredibly aroused but couldn’t finish at all. The next times (without viagra) went as follows. I would cum extremely quickly in Round 1 but would get better in Round 2. About two weeks I was even able to go about 2 minutes in round 1 and then in Round 2 I actually didn’t cum at all but was a longer session. Last week we didn’t have sex. My problem is that the last 2 times I came basically while inserting my penis in Round 1 the first time and after about 30 seconds the second time. However, I couldn’t get a Round 2 going. This is incredibly frustrating to me and my girlfriend, who has been extremely supportive until this point, is getting more irritated. For her sex is very important while for me it is definitely great but not that important. Not being able to properly please her, is killing me. She also doesn’t really like foreplay or me trying to make her cum in another way so I am really at loss. I think you can only get better at it by trying it more but I am just getting more and more anxious. It is starting to feel more like a chore and not like something you’re supposed to enjoy. Any advice? Is this just normal for someone inexperienced like myself? submitted by /u/DueSituation6606 [link] [comments]
Hello everyone,
I am a guy in my mid 20s and I recently got together with my gf. Before her I had no previous sexual encounters whereas she is more experienced. I would consider myself as low libido and don’t masturbate very frequently. The first time went maybe as expected. I couldn’t get hard and it was super awkward. It still freaked me out and I went to my GP who basically said that it’s normal and maybe I should masturbate more to get more used to it. I still ordered viagra. With the use of viagra I was incredibly aroused but couldn’t finish at all. The next times (without viagra) went as follows. I would cum extremely quickly in Round 1 but would get better in Round 2. About two weeks I was even able to go about 2 minutes in round 1 and then in Round 2 I actually didn’t cum at all but was a longer session. Last week we didn’t have sex. My problem is that the last 2 times I came basically while inserting my penis in Round 1 the first time and after about 30 seconds the second time. However, I couldn’t get a Round 2 going. This is incredibly frustrating to me and my girlfriend, who has been extremely supportive until this point, is getting more irritated. For her sex is very important while for me it is definitely great but not that important. Not being able to properly please her, is killing me. She also doesn’t really like foreplay or me trying to make her cum in another way so I am really at loss. I think you can only get better at it by trying it more but I am just getting more and more anxious. It is starting to feel more like a chore and not like something you’re supposed to enjoy. Any advice? Is this just normal for someone inexperienced like myself?
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