hellooo
I lost my virginity last year (so ok like a month or 2 ago) and it was a HARD process. it was so much more painful than any of my friends went through – I ended up having to go to a doctor to artificially pierce through my hymen. anyways. since then my bf (18M) and I (18F) have had sex multiple times, in different positions. and it hurts. every. single. time. he is very gentle and patient and after we’ve been going at it for a bit (like above 10 mins) it definitely goes in and out easier. but sometimes it burns incredibly (no I dont have an infection) and once I even felt like crying. this happens even if he’s a bit too rough/quick with even a single finger. I feel safe with him, im not sure if it could be an emotional aspect. we also always use lube. maybe I have a pelvic floor disorder. I know I have a retroverted uterus so maybe that makes it uncomfortable. it just sucks because sex is meant to be pleasurable. sometimes it comes close to feeling very nice, but never enough for me to orgasm ;( help. im not even sure how a vaginal orgasm is meant to feel?
ALSO – I have a very low libido. if I am turned on it kinda can go away fast :/ that was besides the point just needed a rant
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r/sex hellooo I lost my virginity last year (so ok like a month or 2 ago) and it was a HARD process. it was so much more painful than any of my friends went through – I ended up having to go to a doctor to artificially pierce through my hymen. anyways. since then my bf (18M) and I (18F) have had sex multiple times, in different positions. and it hurts. every. single. time. he is very gentle and patient and after we’ve been going at it for a bit (like above 10 mins) it definitely goes in and out easier. but sometimes it burns incredibly (no I dont have an infection) and once I even felt like crying. this happens even if he’s a bit too rough/quick with even a single finger. I feel safe with him, im not sure if it could be an emotional aspect. we also always use lube. maybe I have a pelvic floor disorder. I know I have a retroverted uterus so maybe that makes it uncomfortable. it just sucks because sex is meant to be pleasurable. sometimes it comes close to feeling very nice, but never enough for me to orgasm ;( help. im not even sure how a vaginal orgasm is meant to feel? ALSO – I have a very low libido. if I am turned on it kinda can go away fast :/ that was besides the point just needed a rant submitted by /u/throwRA_helppickles [link] [comments]
hellooo
I lost my virginity last year (so ok like a month or 2 ago) and it was a HARD process. it was so much more painful than any of my friends went through – I ended up having to go to a doctor to artificially pierce through my hymen. anyways. since then my bf (18M) and I (18F) have had sex multiple times, in different positions. and it hurts. every. single. time. he is very gentle and patient and after we’ve been going at it for a bit (like above 10 mins) it definitely goes in and out easier. but sometimes it burns incredibly (no I dont have an infection) and once I even felt like crying. this happens even if he’s a bit too rough/quick with even a single finger. I feel safe with him, im not sure if it could be an emotional aspect. we also always use lube. maybe I have a pelvic floor disorder. I know I have a retroverted uterus so maybe that makes it uncomfortable. it just sucks because sex is meant to be pleasurable. sometimes it comes close to feeling very nice, but never enough for me to orgasm ;( help. im not even sure how a vaginal orgasm is meant to feel?
ALSO – I have a very low libido. if I am turned on it kinda can go away fast :/ that was besides the point just needed a rant
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