Partner (m) hates doing foreplay and refuses to do it but I (f) need it to be in the mood for sex /u/throwaway247384749 Sex

He claims it’s too much effort and the idea of doing foreplay turns him off to the point he doesn’t wanna have sex at all, but if I don’t receive some type of foreplay (literally doesn’t have to be kinky or anything I’d be fine with even just making out or him kissing my neck) I won’t be in the mood and it’s basically just a thought of ” well let’s get this over with ” until he’s inside of me and it finally feels good. I don’t know what to do and I used to have a lot of kinks but this issue has made me resent them and try to forget they exist, I just get sad when I see anything about foreplay at this point and it feels hopeless. What should I do? Or how can I feel better about this situation?

He claims it’s too much effort and the idea of doing foreplay turns him off to the point he doesn’t wanna have sex at all, but if I don’t receive some type of foreplay (literally doesn’t have to be kinky or anything I’d be fine with even just making out or him kissing my neck) I won’t be in the mood and it’s basically just a thought of ” well let’s get this over with ” until he’s inside of me and it finally feels good. I don’t know what to do and I used to have a lot of kinks but this issue has made me resent them and try to forget they exist, I just get sad when I see anything about foreplay at this point and it feels hopeless. What should I do? Or how can I feel better about this situation?