– I’m male.
– Found out that I like crossdressing from a very early age (4-5).
– Love the soft and soothing feel of feminine clothing.
– Feels like I’m “letting out” my feminine side, a great feeling which is also mentally relaxing.
– Only like crossdressing in private and mostly in a sexual context.
– Only attracted to women.
– Never had any desire whatsoever to transition into the opposite gender in my entire life.
Although I understand that, personally, the act of crossdressing is simply a momentary release, and that I don’t consider myself to be a fundamentally feminine person. My main concern lies in the fact that I am constantly hiding a big and embarrassing secret. If someone outside finds out about this, they can maybe use this knowledge against me (eg. blackmail). Because of this I feel like I might have to make extra effort into trying to hide the fact that I am not feminine, which can be stressful.
So my question is, should I stop crossdressing entirely to avoid this feeling, or keep crossdressing but also carrying this burden/secret? Is a man who happens to enjoy crossdressing in private considered “weak” and/or exploitable and/or inferior? Ideally replies from others with similar experiences would be great, but anyone with constructive feedback is greatly appreciated, thanks!
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r/sex – I’m male. – Found out that I like crossdressing from a very early age (4-5). – Love the soft and soothing feel of feminine clothing. – Feels like I’m “letting out” my feminine side, a great feeling which is also mentally relaxing. – Only like crossdressing in private and mostly in a sexual context. – Only attracted to women. – Never had any desire whatsoever to transition into the opposite gender in my entire life. Although I understand that, personally, the act of crossdressing is simply a momentary release, and that I don’t consider myself to be a fundamentally feminine person. My main concern lies in the fact that I am constantly hiding a big and embarrassing secret. If someone outside finds out about this, they can maybe use this knowledge against me (eg. blackmail). Because of this I feel like I might have to make extra effort into trying to hide the fact that I am not feminine, which can be stressful. So my question is, should I stop crossdressing entirely to avoid this feeling, or keep crossdressing but also carrying this burden/secret? Is a man who happens to enjoy crossdressing in private considered “weak” and/or exploitable and/or inferior? Ideally replies from others with similar experiences would be great, but anyone with constructive feedback is greatly appreciated, thanks! submitted by /u/Last_Hurry2129 [link] [comments]
– I’m male.
– Found out that I like crossdressing from a very early age (4-5).
– Love the soft and soothing feel of feminine clothing.
– Feels like I’m “letting out” my feminine side, a great feeling which is also mentally relaxing.
– Only like crossdressing in private and mostly in a sexual context.
– Only attracted to women.
– Never had any desire whatsoever to transition into the opposite gender in my entire life.
Although I understand that, personally, the act of crossdressing is simply a momentary release, and that I don’t consider myself to be a fundamentally feminine person. My main concern lies in the fact that I am constantly hiding a big and embarrassing secret. If someone outside finds out about this, they can maybe use this knowledge against me (eg. blackmail). Because of this I feel like I might have to make extra effort into trying to hide the fact that I am not feminine, which can be stressful.
So my question is, should I stop crossdressing entirely to avoid this feeling, or keep crossdressing but also carrying this burden/secret? Is a man who happens to enjoy crossdressing in private considered “weak” and/or exploitable and/or inferior? Ideally replies from others with similar experiences would be great, but anyone with constructive feedback is greatly appreciated, thanks!
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