My (25F) boyfriend (26M) would rather watch porn than have sex with me /u/Mediocre-Horror-7963 Sex

This has been a common occurrence, and every time the reason he says is because he’s tired and doesn’t have the energy to do anything with me.. he just says porn is easier and it hurts me.

Last night I was touching him down there, and started going down on him (bj), and he suddenly said: “is it okay if I watch porn instead?”

This absolutely broke me.. I was literally right there and willing to just please him, and even during the act I wasn’t enough.

I asked him why, he again said because he was tired, and wanted a different kind of entertainment (he said he hadn’t watched porn in a while).

I feel broken and I don’t know how to bring it up with him. He says he doesn’t have a porn addiction, and that he just has low energy / tiredness. I don’t know.

How do I approach this convo with him? Should I just accept his reasoning? I want to, but my self-esteem is meh.

This has been a common occurrence, and every time the reason he says is because he’s tired and doesn’t have the energy to do anything with me.. he just says porn is easier and it hurts me.

Last night I was touching him down there, and started going down on him (bj), and he suddenly said: “is it okay if I watch porn instead?”

This absolutely broke me.. I was literally right there and willing to just please him, and even during the act I wasn’t enough.

I asked him why, he again said because he was tired, and wanted a different kind of entertainment (he said he hadn’t watched porn in a while).

I feel broken and I don’t know how to bring it up with him. He says he doesn’t have a porn addiction, and that he just has low energy / tiredness. I don’t know.

How do I approach this convo with him? Should I just accept his reasoning? I want to, but my self-esteem is meh.