Wife Wants to be Shared – How do you tread the emotional part? /u/BurntMason84 Sex

Long story short, my wife (39) and me (38) have been together for over 15 years. We ran into some trouble a few years ago when we had both cheated on each other as we we thought we were both stuck in a “vanilla” sex relationship. Kinda like the song “Escape”, we were both looking for something while not knowing it.

Fast forward to today, and after a lot of therapy and finally opening up (man, we held a lot back for 10 years that we didn’t know about), we’re on a more solid level than we ever were before. That being said, I want to make sure she is happy and satiated. She would like to try some double penetration with another person, and I’ve been exploring some small “gangbang” fantasies, wherein my wife would be with a few other guys.

I know it turns her on, as I talk about it when we’re having sex and, well, she sure cannot hid how excited she gets. That said, I’ve struggled with the “cuckold” term, as I do really enjoy playing the dominating role, as does she the submissive.

I guess I’m asking for those who have gone through and taken the step to “share” partners together, such as a group, swinger, or “gangbang” for lack of better words (not in an “open” relationship where you go off with whomever on your own), how did you handle it the first time around? Are you still together? Are you not? What were your emotions like? Elated, ashamed, confused, belly full of butterflies, etcetera?

Just want to prep and see what others emotions and thoughts were before, during, and after, if possible.

Long story short, my wife (39) and me (38) have been together for over 15 years. We ran into some trouble a few years ago when we had both cheated on each other as we we thought we were both stuck in a “vanilla” sex relationship. Kinda like the song “Escape”, we were both looking for something while not knowing it.

Fast forward to today, and after a lot of therapy and finally opening up (man, we held a lot back for 10 years that we didn’t know about), we’re on a more solid level than we ever were before. That being said, I want to make sure she is happy and satiated. She would like to try some double penetration with another person, and I’ve been exploring some small “gangbang” fantasies, wherein my wife would be with a few other guys.

I know it turns her on, as I talk about it when we’re having sex and, well, she sure cannot hid how excited she gets. That said, I’ve struggled with the “cuckold” term, as I do really enjoy playing the dominating role, as does she the submissive.

I guess I’m asking for those who have gone through and taken the step to “share” partners together, such as a group, swinger, or “gangbang” for lack of better words (not in an “open” relationship where you go off with whomever on your own), how did you handle it the first time around? Are you still together? Are you not? What were your emotions like? Elated, ashamed, confused, belly full of butterflies, etcetera?

Just want to prep and see what others emotions and thoughts were before, during, and after, if possible.