Why do men give lots of attention to half naked girls but then say they want a woman that is not too revealing or has not been around? /u/Athena_Thinker Sex

Whenever I go to the beach, the girls that wear the most revealing swimsuit get the most attention. When I ask men what videos they watch, they show me videos like “I asked 100 girls out” or “I invited his favourite porn star for his birthday”. But then, when I ask men what they want in a gf, they always say they want a girl that hasn’t had too much sex with other men, that is more reserved in the ways she dresses and knows how to be there for him. But why is it then that they give all their attention to all these half naked girls then? If you think that a woman that is too out there is not good enough for you, then why give them attention at all?

Whenever I go to the beach, the girls that wear the most revealing swimsuit get the most attention. When I ask men what videos they watch, they show me videos like “I asked 100 girls out” or “I invited his favourite porn star for his birthday”. But then, when I ask men what they want in a gf, they always say they want a girl that hasn’t had too much sex with other men, that is more reserved in the ways she dresses and knows how to be there for him. But why is it then that they give all their attention to all these half naked girls then? If you think that a woman that is too out there is not good enough for you, then why give them attention at all?