Apparently I (a straight man) like putting stuff in my ass. How to cope with the shame and biases /u/lonelyboi19 Sex

Well as the title says, I’m a straight dude who just got introduced to the world of anal play. It’s always been a think at the back my mind that I wanted to try one day. Gave it a few brief attemps in the past with my fingers and while it was a fun, it always felt impractical.

Well fast forward to few days ago, when, by a spontaneous horny decision, I orderer a small vibrating prostate massager online with a lot of lube and all. It arrived, I gave it a try and I just love it! Love the psychological naughtiness of it, love putting it in, love the feeling of fullness onece it’s in you, love how it feels to have your prostate touched, love how coming with it in feels.

It’s safe to say that I wanna try more butt stuff for sure. However, there’s always this voice shame at the back of my mind. Now I logically know that anal doesn’t make you gay and that there is nothing wromg with putting stuff up there. Yet I still feel like this is not something I should be doing and it somehow makes me disgusting. All the time while making me super horny at the same time. Like the society always tells you that it’s the women who “should” do that stuff, not the guys.

So, with my rant over, how can I better accept this part of my sexuality and move forward with it? Genuinelly feel conflicted rn.

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​r/sex Well as the title says, I’m a straight dude who just got introduced to the world of anal play. It’s always been a think at the back my mind that I wanted to try one day. Gave it a few brief attemps in the past with my fingers and while it was a fun, it always felt impractical. Well fast forward to few days ago, when, by a spontaneous horny decision, I orderer a small vibrating prostate massager online with a lot of lube and all. It arrived, I gave it a try and I just love it! Love the psychological naughtiness of it, love putting it in, love the feeling of fullness onece it’s in you, love how it feels to have your prostate touched, love how coming with it in feels. It’s safe to say that I wanna try more butt stuff for sure. However, there’s always this voice shame at the back of my mind. Now I logically know that anal doesn’t make you gay and that there is nothing wromg with putting stuff up there. Yet I still feel like this is not something I should be doing and it somehow makes me disgusting. All the time while making me super horny at the same time. Like the society always tells you that it’s the women who “should” do that stuff, not the guys. So, with my rant over, how can I better accept this part of my sexuality and move forward with it? Genuinelly feel conflicted rn. submitted by /u/lonelyboi19 [link] [comments] 

Well as the title says, I’m a straight dude who just got introduced to the world of anal play. It’s always been a think at the back my mind that I wanted to try one day. Gave it a few brief attemps in the past with my fingers and while it was a fun, it always felt impractical.

Well fast forward to few days ago, when, by a spontaneous horny decision, I orderer a small vibrating prostate massager online with a lot of lube and all. It arrived, I gave it a try and I just love it! Love the psychological naughtiness of it, love putting it in, love the feeling of fullness onece it’s in you, love how it feels to have your prostate touched, love how coming with it in feels.

It’s safe to say that I wanna try more butt stuff for sure. However, there’s always this voice shame at the back of my mind. Now I logically know that anal doesn’t make you gay and that there is nothing wromg with putting stuff up there. Yet I still feel like this is not something I should be doing and it somehow makes me disgusting. All the time while making me super horny at the same time. Like the society always tells you that it’s the women who “should” do that stuff, not the guys.

So, with my rant over, how can I better accept this part of my sexuality and move forward with it? Genuinelly feel conflicted rn.

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