I am unsure of dating someone with a different sex drive than me (21f) /u/Prestigious-Winter96 Sex

I know you’re probably thinking that since I’m a girl, my sex drive is much lower. But the guy I’m currently going on dates with is 20m and told me stories complaining about the frequency his ex girlfriend wanted sex. It was about what I would like. Once a day hopefully. He described it as being too much. On a different occasion I mentioned I wondered what his intentions were on a movie date at my place. He said if I was looking for sex that night, he’d leave.

Now, I didn’t have any intention to do that anyway and I’ve been containing my desire to do anything with him put of respect because he’s made no moves. Just last night, he asked to kiss me. I said no and made an excuse for being sick. I am afraid that if I kiss him ill want to do more with him, but there’s still time to turn this into a friendship since we haven’t kissed, only talked with light cuddling.

Clearly we have different sex drives and that’s very important for me so I am going to find a way to friendzone him, unless any commenter think this is unreasonable? Lmk

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​r/sex I know you’re probably thinking that since I’m a girl, my sex drive is much lower. But the guy I’m currently going on dates with is 20m and told me stories complaining about the frequency his ex girlfriend wanted sex. It was about what I would like. Once a day hopefully. He described it as being too much. On a different occasion I mentioned I wondered what his intentions were on a movie date at my place. He said if I was looking for sex that night, he’d leave. Now, I didn’t have any intention to do that anyway and I’ve been containing my desire to do anything with him put of respect because he’s made no moves. Just last night, he asked to kiss me. I said no and made an excuse for being sick. I am afraid that if I kiss him ill want to do more with him, but there’s still time to turn this into a friendship since we haven’t kissed, only talked with light cuddling. Clearly we have different sex drives and that’s very important for me so I am going to find a way to friendzone him, unless any commenter think this is unreasonable? Lmk submitted by /u/Prestigious-Winter96 [link] [comments] 

I know you’re probably thinking that since I’m a girl, my sex drive is much lower. But the guy I’m currently going on dates with is 20m and told me stories complaining about the frequency his ex girlfriend wanted sex. It was about what I would like. Once a day hopefully. He described it as being too much. On a different occasion I mentioned I wondered what his intentions were on a movie date at my place. He said if I was looking for sex that night, he’d leave.

Now, I didn’t have any intention to do that anyway and I’ve been containing my desire to do anything with him put of respect because he’s made no moves. Just last night, he asked to kiss me. I said no and made an excuse for being sick. I am afraid that if I kiss him ill want to do more with him, but there’s still time to turn this into a friendship since we haven’t kissed, only talked with light cuddling.

Clearly we have different sex drives and that’s very important for me so I am going to find a way to friendzone him, unless any commenter think this is unreasonable? Lmk

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