Burning pain with sex and inability to relax/enjoy the process /u/kjdembow Sex

Hi guys, I (20f) am looking for some advice. My boyfriend and I recently tried to have sex for the first time and we couldn’t because it was extremely painful for me. We love each other very much and have a very strong connection, but I notice sometimes that it’s hard for me to get/stay turned on and wet when we do things. I haven’t had much experience before him and the experiences I did have were uncomfortable and a little traumatic. I can’t seem to fully relax and enjoy myself, and I don’t want this to keep affecting me or our relationship. Please share your thoughts if you’ve been through something similar/how to work past it!

Hi guys, I (20f) am looking for some advice. My boyfriend and I recently tried to have sex for the first time and we couldn’t because it was extremely painful for me. We love each other very much and have a very strong connection, but I notice sometimes that it’s hard for me to get/stay turned on and wet when we do things. I haven’t had much experience before him and the experiences I did have were uncomfortable and a little traumatic. I can’t seem to fully relax and enjoy myself, and I don’t want this to keep affecting me or our relationship. Please share your thoughts if you’ve been through something similar/how to work past it!