It ‘ s not because he is embarrassed, but he finds it boring. We have sex only like 2 times a month which I find a bit underwhelming. He says his biggest problem is the lenght of our foreplay (usually around 15 mins) because he gets too aroused and the sex itself then lasts around 2 minutes. When he is done he doesn’ t try to finish me or anything which does make me feel sad ngl.
Besides sex I give him a handjob somethimes. But he doesn’ t reciprocate. I really don’ t know what to do. Has anyone had similar “problem” and how did you resolve it? My bf seems to find the whole proces of foreplay too long and doesn’ t think it’ s worth it to have short sex so his solution is to not have sex at all.
We could shorten the foreplay but it’s my favourite part of sex tbh and shorter foreplay doesn’ t make me aroused/wet enough and the sex hurts.
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r/sex It ‘ s not because he is embarrassed, but he finds it boring. We have sex only like 2 times a month which I find a bit underwhelming. He says his biggest problem is the lenght of our foreplay (usually around 15 mins) because he gets too aroused and the sex itself then lasts around 2 minutes. When he is done he doesn’ t try to finish me or anything which does make me feel sad ngl. Besides sex I give him a handjob somethimes. But he doesn’ t reciprocate. I really don’ t know what to do. Has anyone had similar “problem” and how did you resolve it? My bf seems to find the whole proces of foreplay too long and doesn’ t think it’ s worth it to have short sex so his solution is to not have sex at all. We could shorten the foreplay but it’s my favourite part of sex tbh and shorter foreplay doesn’ t make me aroused/wet enough and the sex hurts. submitted by /u/Best_Reach7638 [link] [comments]
It ‘ s not because he is embarrassed, but he finds it boring. We have sex only like 2 times a month which I find a bit underwhelming. He says his biggest problem is the lenght of our foreplay (usually around 15 mins) because he gets too aroused and the sex itself then lasts around 2 minutes. When he is done he doesn’ t try to finish me or anything which does make me feel sad ngl.
Besides sex I give him a handjob somethimes. But he doesn’ t reciprocate. I really don’ t know what to do. Has anyone had similar “problem” and how did you resolve it? My bf seems to find the whole proces of foreplay too long and doesn’ t think it’ s worth it to have short sex so his solution is to not have sex at all.
We could shorten the foreplay but it’s my favourite part of sex tbh and shorter foreplay doesn’ t make me aroused/wet enough and the sex hurts.
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