Advice needed: sexless marriage /u/Consistent-Assist702 Sex

I’m a happily married man in my forties but there is one issue, we haven’t had sex for three years. What makes matters worse is I get quit a lot of looks from women in public and flirtatious eye contact from friends. This leaves me incredibly frustrated. The only thing I can think of is to take some medication to reduce my labedo because I can’t see my situation changing at home. I’m fact one of my female friends says it’s a very common situation. Is it? Any advice would be helpful.

I’m a happily married man in my forties but there is one issue, we haven’t had sex for three years. What makes matters worse is I get quit a lot of looks from women in public and flirtatious eye contact from friends. This leaves me incredibly frustrated. The only thing I can think of is to take some medication to reduce my labedo because I can’t see my situation changing at home. I’m fact one of my female friends says it’s a very common situation. Is it? Any advice would be helpful.