My boyfriend (21M) and I (20F) have been together for almost 2 years. We have a pretty consistent sex life, although we don’t get to spend as much time together as we would like, due to conflicting work schedules. He came over last night after we both got off work (drove an hour from his work to my apartment at 11PM, so we were both exhausted.) Around 1:30am as we were cuddling and almost asleep, he got a boner and initiated sex. We did make out for a short amount of time first, and he also went down on me first so that I could cum. He fucked me after that, but my overthinking has gotten the best of me since we had sex. Normally, he moans loudly when he cums, and will kiss me passionately as he’s finishing. He also will normally hold me very close for a few minutes during missionary and the intimacy in these things make sex that much better.
Last night however, he did not do those things. He came, but he didn’t seem to cum as hard as he normally does, and did not do the intimate acts that I talked about before. He also pulled out and came on my body/face when he normally cums inside of me. I don’t mind that he came on me at all, it is just not usually what he does and the lack of intimacy has sent me into MAJOR overthinking mode. He still cuddled me immediately after, and told me he loved me. I know that he was extremely tired and he did end up falling asleep almost immediately, so I know his exhaustion could be the explanation for the lack of intimacy. I guess I just wanted to post on here to get advice or input from other men because I know that I am a textbook over thinker. Am I totally overthinking this entire situation? Is the lack of intimacy this one time solely due to how tired he was? Any input would be greatly appreciated!!!
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r/sex My boyfriend (21M) and I (20F) have been together for almost 2 years. We have a pretty consistent sex life, although we don’t get to spend as much time together as we would like, due to conflicting work schedules. He came over last night after we both got off work (drove an hour from his work to my apartment at 11PM, so we were both exhausted.) Around 1:30am as we were cuddling and almost asleep, he got a boner and initiated sex. We did make out for a short amount of time first, and he also went down on me first so that I could cum. He fucked me after that, but my overthinking has gotten the best of me since we had sex. Normally, he moans loudly when he cums, and will kiss me passionately as he’s finishing. He also will normally hold me very close for a few minutes during missionary and the intimacy in these things make sex that much better. Last night however, he did not do those things. He came, but he didn’t seem to cum as hard as he normally does, and did not do the intimate acts that I talked about before. He also pulled out and came on my body/face when he normally cums inside of me. I don’t mind that he came on me at all, it is just not usually what he does and the lack of intimacy has sent me into MAJOR overthinking mode. He still cuddled me immediately after, and told me he loved me. I know that he was extremely tired and he did end up falling asleep almost immediately, so I know his exhaustion could be the explanation for the lack of intimacy. I guess I just wanted to post on here to get advice or input from other men because I know that I am a textbook over thinker. Am I totally overthinking this entire situation? Is the lack of intimacy this one time solely due to how tired he was? Any input would be greatly appreciated!!! submitted by /u/These_Huckleberry_41 [link] [comments]
My boyfriend (21M) and I (20F) have been together for almost 2 years. We have a pretty consistent sex life, although we don’t get to spend as much time together as we would like, due to conflicting work schedules. He came over last night after we both got off work (drove an hour from his work to my apartment at 11PM, so we were both exhausted.) Around 1:30am as we were cuddling and almost asleep, he got a boner and initiated sex. We did make out for a short amount of time first, and he also went down on me first so that I could cum. He fucked me after that, but my overthinking has gotten the best of me since we had sex. Normally, he moans loudly when he cums, and will kiss me passionately as he’s finishing. He also will normally hold me very close for a few minutes during missionary and the intimacy in these things make sex that much better.
Last night however, he did not do those things. He came, but he didn’t seem to cum as hard as he normally does, and did not do the intimate acts that I talked about before. He also pulled out and came on my body/face when he normally cums inside of me. I don’t mind that he came on me at all, it is just not usually what he does and the lack of intimacy has sent me into MAJOR overthinking mode. He still cuddled me immediately after, and told me he loved me. I know that he was extremely tired and he did end up falling asleep almost immediately, so I know his exhaustion could be the explanation for the lack of intimacy. I guess I just wanted to post on here to get advice or input from other men because I know that I am a textbook over thinker. Am I totally overthinking this entire situation? Is the lack of intimacy this one time solely due to how tired he was? Any input would be greatly appreciated!!!
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