how do i communicate to my dominant boyfriend that I do not like being submissive when giving a blowjob? /u/Appropriate_Day4259 Sex

My boyfriend and I started having oral sex around a month ago. He ate me out, it felt fantastic. He’s overly enthusiastic about going down on me and enjoys giving me pleasure rather than receiving it. I enjoy being dominant or submissive whenever I am receiving pleasure, it doesn’t matter to me.

I have only went down on him once, and I enjoyed it.

In scenarios where he mentions what he fantasizes about he says he wants to “shove it in my mouth while im laying down” or “see me on my knees.”

I get this feeling of discomfort and feel like i’m being degraded (in the bad way) whenever he says these things. I understand it’s supposed to feel empowering, yet, I just don’t enjoy it. There’s nothing wrong with his dick, or him.

I hate how the more I associate giving him a blowjob with being disrespected or demeaned, the less I want to give him a blowjob.

I don’t know how to communicate to him that i’d rather be dominant during oral sex.

My boyfriend and I started having oral sex around a month ago. He ate me out, it felt fantastic. He’s overly enthusiastic about going down on me and enjoys giving me pleasure rather than receiving it. I enjoy being dominant or submissive whenever I am receiving pleasure, it doesn’t matter to me.

I have only went down on him once, and I enjoyed it.

In scenarios where he mentions what he fantasizes about he says he wants to “shove it in my mouth while im laying down” or “see me on my knees.”

I get this feeling of discomfort and feel like i’m being degraded (in the bad way) whenever he says these things. I understand it’s supposed to feel empowering, yet, I just don’t enjoy it. There’s nothing wrong with his dick, or him.

I hate how the more I associate giving him a blowjob with being disrespected or demeaned, the less I want to give him a blowjob.

I don’t know how to communicate to him that i’d rather be dominant during oral sex.