I (25f) think I have a few issues surrounding sex. I lost my virginity quite late due to spending most of my teenage years having no interest in sex and quite frankly being terrified of it due to my low self esteem. I lost my virginity to the same guy I’m seeing now and have learnt to enjoy sex however I’m still very shy about everything. Everything we do is very vanilla and I know he’d like to spice things up a bit. We usually stick to missionary, cowgirl or lying down doggy with lights dimmed because I get quite self conscious during. However the guy I’m seeing told me he absolutely loves doggy/fucking from behind. We’ve done doggy a couple times but I felt like I couldn’t fully relax and enjoy it because of all the worries in my head about how I looked etc. I’m seeing him next week (we’re long distance) and he’s been talking about how he’s been fantasising bending me over in various places in my house and fucking me. Ngl this sounds hot and I want to do it but there’s that shy part of me that feels embarrassed and insecure. I just want to get over it, any advice??
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r/sex I (25f) think I have a few issues surrounding sex. I lost my virginity quite late due to spending most of my teenage years having no interest in sex and quite frankly being terrified of it due to my low self esteem. I lost my virginity to the same guy I’m seeing now and have learnt to enjoy sex however I’m still very shy about everything. Everything we do is very vanilla and I know he’d like to spice things up a bit. We usually stick to missionary, cowgirl or lying down doggy with lights dimmed because I get quite self conscious during. However the guy I’m seeing told me he absolutely loves doggy/fucking from behind. We’ve done doggy a couple times but I felt like I couldn’t fully relax and enjoy it because of all the worries in my head about how I looked etc. I’m seeing him next week (we’re long distance) and he’s been talking about how he’s been fantasising bending me over in various places in my house and fucking me. Ngl this sounds hot and I want to do it but there’s that shy part of me that feels embarrassed and insecure. I just want to get over it, any advice?? submitted by /u/sweetp3a34 [link] [comments]
I (25f) think I have a few issues surrounding sex. I lost my virginity quite late due to spending most of my teenage years having no interest in sex and quite frankly being terrified of it due to my low self esteem. I lost my virginity to the same guy I’m seeing now and have learnt to enjoy sex however I’m still very shy about everything. Everything we do is very vanilla and I know he’d like to spice things up a bit. We usually stick to missionary, cowgirl or lying down doggy with lights dimmed because I get quite self conscious during. However the guy I’m seeing told me he absolutely loves doggy/fucking from behind. We’ve done doggy a couple times but I felt like I couldn’t fully relax and enjoy it because of all the worries in my head about how I looked etc. I’m seeing him next week (we’re long distance) and he’s been talking about how he’s been fantasising bending me over in various places in my house and fucking me. Ngl this sounds hot and I want to do it but there’s that shy part of me that feels embarrassed and insecure. I just want to get over it, any advice??
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