I need help with intimacy /u/WhimsicalWoman34 Sex

I’ll just say it. I don’t have sex enough with my boyfriend. He is the most amazing man in the world. We are so deeply in love and so connected. I struggle with intimacy though, and I struggle a lot. I have SA trauma from a few different people. I was also brainwashed to believe that I was as just an item to a previous partner. He made me believe that women are just play things and need to always submit. I’m hypersensitive and sometimes just being touched can send me over the edge to the point where I will have a panic attack. I love this man so freaking much. I want an active and loving sex life with him. I want to know what kind of therapy as worked for individuals who have dealt with similar issues. What have you found that works?

I’ll just say it. I don’t have sex enough with my boyfriend. He is the most amazing man in the world. We are so deeply in love and so connected. I struggle with intimacy though, and I struggle a lot. I have SA trauma from a few different people. I was also brainwashed to believe that I was as just an item to a previous partner. He made me believe that women are just play things and need to always submit. I’m hypersensitive and sometimes just being touched can send me over the edge to the point where I will have a panic attack. I love this man so freaking much. I want an active and loving sex life with him. I want to know what kind of therapy as worked for individuals who have dealt with similar issues. What have you found that works?