Husband won’t go down on me /u/Alternative_Baby1691

My husband won’t go down on me… I’m pregnant right now, but it’s been almost 10 months since he’s gone down on me. I give him head often. I do sometimes choose to not give him head and I do communicate it’s because I want to receive it too.

Our sex life isn’t BAD by any means. He’s not opposed to toys and he does make sure I get off during sex… but I love receiving oral and this is a big thing for me. This has been communicated.

I’ll even shower and try to get freaky right after so there isn’t any kind of smell (guys I dated in the past never cared about my smell… I’m very clean…?) but this doesn’t seem to help either? He rarely likes to even finger me.

I don’t think oral or fingering is dirty or kinky at all, but I do know he’s much more “vanilla” than me. I’m just struggling and I don’t know how to help this out. Thoughts?

My husband won’t go down on me… I’m pregnant right now, but it’s been almost 10 months since he’s gone down on me. I give him head often. I do sometimes choose to not give him head and I do communicate it’s because I want to receive it too.

Our sex life isn’t BAD by any means. He’s not opposed to toys and he does make sure I get off during sex… but I love receiving oral and this is a big thing for me. This has been communicated.

I’ll even shower and try to get freaky right after so there isn’t any kind of smell (guys I dated in the past never cared about my smell… I’m very clean…?) but this doesn’t seem to help either? He rarely likes to even finger me.

I don’t think oral or fingering is dirty or kinky at all, but I do know he’s much more “vanilla” than me. I’m just struggling and I don’t know how to help this out. Thoughts?