Saw this guy briefly, went in wanting to casually date. There were heavy make-out sessions but no sex, yet. Turned out he wanted casual sex the next time we meet, decided it was too fast for me. Yes I already know he wasn’t into a relationship but I wanted to casually date for a bit to get comfortable with sleeping with someone.
I was attracted to him but decided I shouldn’t cave into something I am not comfortable yet just to keep him around (I was also starting to catch feelings). We both left it as that and stopped contact.
It has been a couple of months now since I stepped away from the situation and gained clarity. On hindsight, I was kind of invested which caused me all that agony of wanting more with him but he didn’t. My feelings have since died, I just want to hookup with him now because I was very much physically attracted to him and it feels like unfinished business.
I want to text him but unsure how should I go about it directly without bad taste.
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r/sex Saw this guy briefly, went in wanting to casually date. There were heavy make-out sessions but no sex, yet. Turned out he wanted casual sex the next time we meet, decided it was too fast for me. Yes I already know he wasn’t into a relationship but I wanted to casually date for a bit to get comfortable with sleeping with someone. I was attracted to him but decided I shouldn’t cave into something I am not comfortable yet just to keep him around (I was also starting to catch feelings). We both left it as that and stopped contact. It has been a couple of months now since I stepped away from the situation and gained clarity. On hindsight, I was kind of invested which caused me all that agony of wanting more with him but he didn’t. My feelings have since died, I just want to hookup with him now because I was very much physically attracted to him and it feels like unfinished business. I want to text him but unsure how should I go about it directly without bad taste. submitted by /u/ThrowRAhalps123 [link] [comments]
Saw this guy briefly, went in wanting to casually date. There were heavy make-out sessions but no sex, yet. Turned out he wanted casual sex the next time we meet, decided it was too fast for me. Yes I already know he wasn’t into a relationship but I wanted to casually date for a bit to get comfortable with sleeping with someone.
I was attracted to him but decided I shouldn’t cave into something I am not comfortable yet just to keep him around (I was also starting to catch feelings). We both left it as that and stopped contact.
It has been a couple of months now since I stepped away from the situation and gained clarity. On hindsight, I was kind of invested which caused me all that agony of wanting more with him but he didn’t. My feelings have since died, I just want to hookup with him now because I was very much physically attracted to him and it feels like unfinished business.
I want to text him but unsure how should I go about it directly without bad taste.
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