Bf turned off by my kink ? /u/madilyndarling Sex

My bf “playfully’ slapped my ass really hard the other day when we were just hanging out. I think he mainly just did it as a joke, he was laughing at my startled reaction from it. Once the moment passed I commented on how it could have left a mark, how I thought getting marks left on me was hot. But then he was totally turned off and didn’t understand why I’d like that at all. I told him I don’t mean anything extreme, just like a hand print from spanking or little hickies and love bites. I ended up feeling totally rejected. Our sex life is already strained as it is…

This is a normal kink though right? Is this something some people just really don’t like?

My bf “playfully’ slapped my ass really hard the other day when we were just hanging out. I think he mainly just did it as a joke, he was laughing at my startled reaction from it. Once the moment passed I commented on how it could have left a mark, how I thought getting marks left on me was hot. But then he was totally turned off and didn’t understand why I’d like that at all. I told him I don’t mean anything extreme, just like a hand print from spanking or little hickies and love bites. I ended up feeling totally rejected. Our sex life is already strained as it is…

This is a normal kink though right? Is this something some people just really don’t like?