Best way to ask partner to perform oral sex? /u/istph2 Sex

My partner (30M) and I (30F) have a decent sex life, however he does not go down on me which is causing me sexual dissatisfaction.

I’ve brought it up multiple times how I’d like to receive oral sex, and the first time he said he has no experience going down on women but said he was not opposed to it and wants to try though he feels uncomfortable due to lack of experience. A few times he went down for literally less than five seconds (I was in disbelief) and then came back up, which totally ruined the mood for me entirely. I’m hygienic and never had this problem in past relationships so I have no idea what to do as I’ve brought it up with him nearly 6 different times how this is something I want.

When and how is the most effective way to bring this up again? Its turning me off to remind him or to feel like I have to beg for it, and asking during sex or trying to direct him in that direction totally ruins the mood for me.

My partner (30M) and I (30F) have a decent sex life, however he does not go down on me which is causing me sexual dissatisfaction.

I’ve brought it up multiple times how I’d like to receive oral sex, and the first time he said he has no experience going down on women but said he was not opposed to it and wants to try though he feels uncomfortable due to lack of experience. A few times he went down for literally less than five seconds (I was in disbelief) and then came back up, which totally ruined the mood for me entirely. I’m hygienic and never had this problem in past relationships so I have no idea what to do as I’ve brought it up with him nearly 6 different times how this is something I want.

When and how is the most effective way to bring this up again? Its turning me off to remind him or to feel like I have to beg for it, and asking during sex or trying to direct him in that direction totally ruins the mood for me.