So recently I (35M) was invited back to the home of the person (36F) I’d been seeing for a while and started to develop feelings for. We get there and I’m unsure of what her intentions were due to a lack of the usual flirtatious signals. She offers me a drink and does nothing further to set the mood. An hour and three whiskeys later she says she’s getting ready for bed so I say ok I’ll get going, she stops me and asks me to stay, handing me a pair of pajamas. Now at this point we’ve not shared much more than a hug. When we lay down it is the first time she alludes to wanting anything physical to happen. Without going into too much detail we attempt to hook up, either due to nerves or liquor I can’t keep it up. Also my hand/mouth action is clumsy at best. Next day I don’t hear from her and when I do she’s saying she’s not interested in moving forward at all. It sucks, I’m a little bummed, but I get it. Now the issue is since that night, sex drive is non existent, porn is doing nothing for me I’m nervous to try to proceed with anyone else I’m talking to. Am I ruined for life? Should I go see a doctor?!
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r/sex So recently I (35M) was invited back to the home of the person (36F) I’d been seeing for a while and started to develop feelings for. We get there and I’m unsure of what her intentions were due to a lack of the usual flirtatious signals. She offers me a drink and does nothing further to set the mood. An hour and three whiskeys later she says she’s getting ready for bed so I say ok I’ll get going, she stops me and asks me to stay, handing me a pair of pajamas. Now at this point we’ve not shared much more than a hug. When we lay down it is the first time she alludes to wanting anything physical to happen. Without going into too much detail we attempt to hook up, either due to nerves or liquor I can’t keep it up. Also my hand/mouth action is clumsy at best. Next day I don’t hear from her and when I do she’s saying she’s not interested in moving forward at all. It sucks, I’m a little bummed, but I get it. Now the issue is since that night, sex drive is non existent, porn is doing nothing for me I’m nervous to try to proceed with anyone else I’m talking to. Am I ruined for life? Should I go see a doctor?! submitted by /u/throwRA070728 [link] [comments]
So recently I (35M) was invited back to the home of the person (36F) I’d been seeing for a while and started to develop feelings for. We get there and I’m unsure of what her intentions were due to a lack of the usual flirtatious signals. She offers me a drink and does nothing further to set the mood. An hour and three whiskeys later she says she’s getting ready for bed so I say ok I’ll get going, she stops me and asks me to stay, handing me a pair of pajamas. Now at this point we’ve not shared much more than a hug. When we lay down it is the first time she alludes to wanting anything physical to happen. Without going into too much detail we attempt to hook up, either due to nerves or liquor I can’t keep it up. Also my hand/mouth action is clumsy at best. Next day I don’t hear from her and when I do she’s saying she’s not interested in moving forward at all. It sucks, I’m a little bummed, but I get it. Now the issue is since that night, sex drive is non existent, porn is doing nothing for me I’m nervous to try to proceed with anyone else I’m talking to. Am I ruined for life? Should I go see a doctor?!
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