Bf can’t finish during sex unless he jerks himself off. /u/FishCackledWanda Sex

Yeah, I know, this question has been around a lot. He has a hard time cumming, sometimes rvrn when he jerks himself off. I’d say 50% of the times we have sex he can’t finish inside. It varies tho, sometimes he’ll finish in me 3/5 times, lately it’s been more 1/5. I’ve been in every stage of thought. He’s my first so my first thought was that there was something wrong with me. Tried doing kegels but it didn’t do much difference. Went on the pill so we didn’t have to use condoms, it remained pretty much the same. I figured it could be death grip. When he jerks himself off after sex, he does use quite fast motions (he has to switch hands because they get tired). Can’t comment on the grip tightness – I asked him once to describe to me how exactly he does it and he described it as moderate grip. I asked him what would happen of he didn’t finish during sex, he said it would be painful and he’d get blue balls.

I’m really at loss here. I never asked him about his masturbation habits, I know I probably should have, but I don’t see when he’d have the time to. We are together pretty much all the time except when we’re at work.

When I asked him how would it feel if he didn’t finish, I did it because he’d always seem super frustrated and sometimes sex just isn’t good because of it.

Yeah, I know, this question has been around a lot. He has a hard time cumming, sometimes rvrn when he jerks himself off. I’d say 50% of the times we have sex he can’t finish inside. It varies tho, sometimes he’ll finish in me 3/5 times, lately it’s been more 1/5. I’ve been in every stage of thought. He’s my first so my first thought was that there was something wrong with me. Tried doing kegels but it didn’t do much difference. Went on the pill so we didn’t have to use condoms, it remained pretty much the same. I figured it could be death grip. When he jerks himself off after sex, he does use quite fast motions (he has to switch hands because they get tired). Can’t comment on the grip tightness – I asked him once to describe to me how exactly he does it and he described it as moderate grip. I asked him what would happen of he didn’t finish during sex, he said it would be painful and he’d get blue balls.

I’m really at loss here. I never asked him about his masturbation habits, I know I probably should have, but I don’t see when he’d have the time to. We are together pretty much all the time except when we’re at work.

When I asked him how would it feel if he didn’t finish, I did it because he’d always seem super frustrated and sometimes sex just isn’t good because of it.