person disregarded lack of consent and put it in with no condom. need support. /u/inkflower333 Sex

this has been traumatizing for me.

i said no to having sex without a condom multiple times and he put it in anyways without asking just while hooking up, shoved it in and i froze a bit. i then made him stop, he didn’t finish.

i’ve been calling a crisis line a few times to talk and i’m trying to work through it emotionally

as far as physically goes: he got tested, was negative for everything. i will get tested but there’s a window to wait – since he is negative i don’t have to worry about hiv etc. right?

i think bc of how emotionally upsetting this has been i’m spiralling about the physical part. i got some sort of vaginal bacteria infection which i have to do treatment for 10 days. this has been upsetting. i went to the doctor and he said to get tested for everything soon but urine came back negative for those that tested by urine (gonorrhoea etc) and it’s likely yeast/bacterial/fungal. it’s been physically painful.

i understand there’s nothing i can do about hpv, which i’m devastated about. i’ll just have to wait and see.

i guess im asking if i can relatively rest assured about the physical and focus on the emotional healing? is there anything im not thinking of?

this has been traumatizing for me.

i said no to having sex without a condom multiple times and he put it in anyways without asking just while hooking up, shoved it in and i froze a bit. i then made him stop, he didn’t finish.

i’ve been calling a crisis line a few times to talk and i’m trying to work through it emotionally

as far as physically goes: he got tested, was negative for everything. i will get tested but there’s a window to wait – since he is negative i don’t have to worry about hiv etc. right?

i think bc of how emotionally upsetting this has been i’m spiralling about the physical part. i got some sort of vaginal bacteria infection which i have to do treatment for 10 days. this has been upsetting. i went to the doctor and he said to get tested for everything soon but urine came back negative for those that tested by urine (gonorrhoea etc) and it’s likely yeast/bacterial/fungal. it’s been physically painful.

i understand there’s nothing i can do about hpv, which i’m devastated about. i’ll just have to wait and see.

i guess im asking if i can relatively rest assured about the physical and focus on the emotional healing? is there anything im not thinking of?