Today marks one year.
One year since my husband (40M) and I (33F) have had sex. Everything else in our marriage is amazing, but the bedroom is cold/dead.
The issue is I’m a sexual person and I’ve managed to subdue that side of myself for my husband.
He doesn’t feel comfortable or confident in his skin as time has gone on and I am trying to be mindful of that.
I just want to know what I can do to make him happy and myself as well. I’ve tried talking about doing various other things and I’m shut down at every turn.
I don’t want nor will I pursue a divorce but I’m hoping if someone else has been in a similar boat that suggestions can be offered.
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r/sex Today marks one year. One year since my husband (40M) and I (33F) have had sex. Everything else in our marriage is amazing, but the bedroom is cold/dead. The issue is I’m a sexual person and I’ve managed to subdue that side of myself for my husband. He doesn’t feel comfortable or confident in his skin as time has gone on and I am trying to be mindful of that. I just want to know what I can do to make him happy and myself as well. I’ve tried talking about doing various other things and I’m shut down at every turn. I don’t want nor will I pursue a divorce but I’m hoping if someone else has been in a similar boat that suggestions can be offered. submitted by /u/BBpostsUsee [link] [comments]
Today marks one year.
One year since my husband (40M) and I (33F) have had sex. Everything else in our marriage is amazing, but the bedroom is cold/dead.
The issue is I’m a sexual person and I’ve managed to subdue that side of myself for my husband.
He doesn’t feel comfortable or confident in his skin as time has gone on and I am trying to be mindful of that.
I just want to know what I can do to make him happy and myself as well. I’ve tried talking about doing various other things and I’m shut down at every turn.
I don’t want nor will I pursue a divorce but I’m hoping if someone else has been in a similar boat that suggestions can be offered.
submitted by /u/BBpostsUsee
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