Every time we’re done I can’t help but think “Is this what it’s gonna be like for the rest of my life?” He’s my first everything and I cherish him a lot. We’re compatible and understand each other deeply but our incompatibility with sex constantly has me questioning what-if’s.
I almost feel resentment whenever he’s left coming and I’m not. What sucks even more is he can’t seem to last… he either comes in below 30 seconds or can’t get it up for a second round. He can’t give good head and doesn’t make me nut during penetrative sex and I manage to do both exceptionally. I don’t know anything other than him which often leaves me more confused and questioning then it does secure and lucky.
Obviously I wonder about what better could be but the fact that there might not be better in an all around way (beyond sex) is what makes me not want to separate from him. He genuinely wants to make me feel good and I’ve seen him get super insecure about not being good enough sexually so it’s not the fact he isn’t trying or eager. It just seems like he sucks full stop.. I’m not really sure where I’m going with this or what to do. We’re still really young and have lots to learn so I’d never hold this against him. It just sucks ig
Edit: we’ve had multiple talks about it and I have no problem sharing with him I wish he’d give more pleasure, and I’ve also talked to him about what feels good and what doesn’t as he’s doing it multiple* times.
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r/sex Every time we’re done I can’t help but think “Is this what it’s gonna be like for the rest of my life?” He’s my first everything and I cherish him a lot. We’re compatible and understand each other deeply but our incompatibility with sex constantly has me questioning what-if’s. I almost feel resentment whenever he’s left coming and I’m not. What sucks even more is he can’t seem to last… he either comes in below 30 seconds or can’t get it up for a second round. He can’t give good head and doesn’t make me nut during penetrative sex and I manage to do both exceptionally. I don’t know anything other than him which often leaves me more confused and questioning then it does secure and lucky. Obviously I wonder about what better could be but the fact that there might not be better in an all around way (beyond sex) is what makes me not want to separate from him. He genuinely wants to make me feel good and I’ve seen him get super insecure about not being good enough sexually so it’s not the fact he isn’t trying or eager. It just seems like he sucks full stop.. I’m not really sure where I’m going with this or what to do. We’re still really young and have lots to learn so I’d never hold this against him. It just sucks ig Edit: we’ve had multiple talks about it and I have no problem sharing with him I wish he’d give more pleasure, and I’ve also talked to him about what feels good and what doesn’t as he’s doing it multiple* times. submitted by /u/Putrid_Ad4459 [link] [comments]
Every time we’re done I can’t help but think “Is this what it’s gonna be like for the rest of my life?” He’s my first everything and I cherish him a lot. We’re compatible and understand each other deeply but our incompatibility with sex constantly has me questioning what-if’s.
I almost feel resentment whenever he’s left coming and I’m not. What sucks even more is he can’t seem to last… he either comes in below 30 seconds or can’t get it up for a second round. He can’t give good head and doesn’t make me nut during penetrative sex and I manage to do both exceptionally. I don’t know anything other than him which often leaves me more confused and questioning then it does secure and lucky.
Obviously I wonder about what better could be but the fact that there might not be better in an all around way (beyond sex) is what makes me not want to separate from him. He genuinely wants to make me feel good and I’ve seen him get super insecure about not being good enough sexually so it’s not the fact he isn’t trying or eager. It just seems like he sucks full stop.. I’m not really sure where I’m going with this or what to do. We’re still really young and have lots to learn so I’d never hold this against him. It just sucks ig
Edit: we’ve had multiple talks about it and I have no problem sharing with him I wish he’d give more pleasure, and I’ve also talked to him about what feels good and what doesn’t as he’s doing it multiple* times.
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