I don’t Know why I’m so upset about my most recent sexual experience. How do I see past my own emotions? /u/thereciprocator- Sex

Confused and upset

So I’ve been seeing this person for a couple month and the sex has been super awesome. They just started BC and It takes a long time for them to cum and I know BC makes it difficult. I know there is no set goal when having sex other than to have fun and enjoy the experience, but last night when we were fucking, they didn’t cum and I did twice. Woke up this morning with them in a pissy mood cause they didn’t cum. I fell asleep after I asked if they wanted to use the vibrator. They said yes and I just immediately fell asleep (major man moment). But this morning I feel just especially bad cause it’s been the norm for me to have both of us cum. They said the sex was super awesome and I shouldn’t worry about it but for some reason it’s just really not making me feel good. I suppose it’s pseudo male ego but I can’t help but feel bad. What is going on?

Confused and upset

So I’ve been seeing this person for a couple month and the sex has been super awesome. They just started BC and It takes a long time for them to cum and I know BC makes it difficult. I know there is no set goal when having sex other than to have fun and enjoy the experience, but last night when we were fucking, they didn’t cum and I did twice. Woke up this morning with them in a pissy mood cause they didn’t cum. I fell asleep after I asked if they wanted to use the vibrator. They said yes and I just immediately fell asleep (major man moment). But this morning I feel just especially bad cause it’s been the norm for me to have both of us cum. They said the sex was super awesome and I shouldn’t worry about it but for some reason it’s just really not making me feel good. I suppose it’s pseudo male ego but I can’t help but feel bad. What is going on?