In my previous relationship my girlfriend used to give me blowjobs pretty often while in my current relationship my girlfriend rarely gives them (probably once every 3 months). It’s something I like and my girlfriend knows and we talked about how it makes me feel, not just sexually in the moment but as a man, but it is something that in the time of the act, is one sided, therefore I can’t and don’t force her or put pressure on her to do it. Especially because she prefers a viberator rather then oral sex performed on her (although I enjoy giving her oral sex and sometimes even offer her it during foreplay and she says no).
In short, I really feel like I’m a giver and I get turned on and LOVE seeing my girlfriend get turned on and enjoying herself, but it doesn’t seem like she is the same way.
So being that I was in 2 serious relationship where 1 gave it often and 1 rarely does, is it just a “giver” or “taker” thing? Some people enjoy and get off seeing their partner enjoy and some people just don’t really care about it too much?
Any thoughts feedback or tips would be appreciated
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r/sex In my previous relationship my girlfriend used to give me blowjobs pretty often while in my current relationship my girlfriend rarely gives them (probably once every 3 months). It’s something I like and my girlfriend knows and we talked about how it makes me feel, not just sexually in the moment but as a man, but it is something that in the time of the act, is one sided, therefore I can’t and don’t force her or put pressure on her to do it. Especially because she prefers a viberator rather then oral sex performed on her (although I enjoy giving her oral sex and sometimes even offer her it during foreplay and she says no). In short, I really feel like I’m a giver and I get turned on and LOVE seeing my girlfriend get turned on and enjoying herself, but it doesn’t seem like she is the same way. So being that I was in 2 serious relationship where 1 gave it often and 1 rarely does, is it just a “giver” or “taker” thing? Some people enjoy and get off seeing their partner enjoy and some people just don’t really care about it too much? Any thoughts feedback or tips would be appreciated submitted by /u/theguyguy121 [link] [comments]
In my previous relationship my girlfriend used to give me blowjobs pretty often while in my current relationship my girlfriend rarely gives them (probably once every 3 months). It’s something I like and my girlfriend knows and we talked about how it makes me feel, not just sexually in the moment but as a man, but it is something that in the time of the act, is one sided, therefore I can’t and don’t force her or put pressure on her to do it. Especially because she prefers a viberator rather then oral sex performed on her (although I enjoy giving her oral sex and sometimes even offer her it during foreplay and she says no).
In short, I really feel like I’m a giver and I get turned on and LOVE seeing my girlfriend get turned on and enjoying herself, but it doesn’t seem like she is the same way.
So being that I was in 2 serious relationship where 1 gave it often and 1 rarely does, is it just a “giver” or “taker” thing? Some people enjoy and get off seeing their partner enjoy and some people just don’t really care about it too much?
Any thoughts feedback or tips would be appreciated
submitted by /u/theguyguy121
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