My wife seems not attracted to me /u/Africanplumber69 Sex

This is my story and I need help. My wife seems not to be attracted to me.I know she loves me emotionally but not enough for her to want me physically.the feeling you get from your partner wanting you is so important and I’m not getting that from her. Thoughts of me not being good enough for her have crossed my mind a million times, when we are having sex she hardly touches me unless if I request, she doesn’t like kissing me and it makes me wonder if she really loves me.I have tried to speak to her about it but she subtly brushes it off.I have asked her to use birth control because I don’t like condoms and it feels good not to use them also.i honestly don’t want to cheat on her but I feel like it’s the only way I can be happy.

This is my story and I need help. My wife seems not to be attracted to me.I know she loves me emotionally but not enough for her to want me physically.the feeling you get from your partner wanting you is so important and I’m not getting that from her. Thoughts of me not being good enough for her have crossed my mind a million times, when we are having sex she hardly touches me unless if I request, she doesn’t like kissing me and it makes me wonder if she really loves me.I have tried to speak to her about it but she subtly brushes it off.I have asked her to use birth control because I don’t like condoms and it feels good not to use them also.i honestly don’t want to cheat on her but I feel like it’s the only way I can be happy.