Just Cuddle, No Sex /u/8999897 Sex

Hi Reddit.

So recently, I (25M) was introduced by two friends to their friend ‘Mia’ (35F) on a night out clubbing. She caught my attention quick – a petite Asian gamer girl with tattoos covering 90% of her body. Bold and sexy, I spent most of my night talking to her instead of hanging out with my two other mates.

I learn that she’s gotten out of a pretty toxic relationship as of only two weeks ago. So I refrain from flirting with her too much but eventually, after several hours of drinking, smoking, and talking, she asks me if I want to go back to her place “just to cuddle”.

I say yeah and me and my mates head back to her apartment to listen to music while she cooks us boys food. They leave her and I alone together and, after she clarifies that she just wants to cuddle, we start cuddling half naked in bed and I found myself in a dilemma where I’m not sure if I should make a move or not.

I tested the waters, touching her slightly on her leg and waist but I hold back from doing anything else and spend the rest of the night restless and agitated.

It was a bizarre situation to say the least because I had only met the girl that night. She told me she misses the cuddling she used to receive in a relationship, hence her invitation. I’m not sure if I should have just made a move, but I was content to cuddle. Although the next day I felt like cuddling and DMing was far more intimate than if we had just had sex. I found myself feeling a bit attached to her which was very quick.

I’m going to see her again soon for another night out with friends and I’m not sure if I should: a) make a move on her, b) be her platonic cuddle buddy again if the opportunity presents, or c) avoid her altogether because her breakup is still fresh and I don’t want to get attached to her.

What do you guys think? Anyone ever been in this situation before? If so, I’d appreciate any advice you may have 🙂

Hi Reddit.

So recently, I (25M) was introduced by two friends to their friend ‘Mia’ (35F) on a night out clubbing. She caught my attention quick – a petite Asian gamer girl with tattoos covering 90% of her body. Bold and sexy, I spent most of my night talking to her instead of hanging out with my two other mates.

I learn that she’s gotten out of a pretty toxic relationship as of only two weeks ago. So I refrain from flirting with her too much but eventually, after several hours of drinking, smoking, and talking, she asks me if I want to go back to her place “just to cuddle”.

I say yeah and me and my mates head back to her apartment to listen to music while she cooks us boys food. They leave her and I alone together and, after she clarifies that she just wants to cuddle, we start cuddling half naked in bed and I found myself in a dilemma where I’m not sure if I should make a move or not.

I tested the waters, touching her slightly on her leg and waist but I hold back from doing anything else and spend the rest of the night restless and agitated.

It was a bizarre situation to say the least because I had only met the girl that night. She told me she misses the cuddling she used to receive in a relationship, hence her invitation. I’m not sure if I should have just made a move, but I was content to cuddle. Although the next day I felt like cuddling and DMing was far more intimate than if we had just had sex. I found myself feeling a bit attached to her which was very quick.

I’m going to see her again soon for another night out with friends and I’m not sure if I should: a) make a move on her, b) be her platonic cuddle buddy again if the opportunity presents, or c) avoid her altogether because her breakup is still fresh and I don’t want to get attached to her.

What do you guys think? Anyone ever been in this situation before? If so, I’d appreciate any advice you may have 🙂