How do I learn to be able to have sex with people I’m not in a relationship with? /u/UnluckyCat55 Sex

I am pretty damn inexperienced in the sexual field. I had a gf and we had good sex, she said I was great and probs best she’s had bc I asked and listen to what she liked and whatnot, so that boosted my confidence. Other than that, the time I lost my virginity, which the first time was pretty miserable lmao.

I feel like I have good potential to have sex with lots of women, but afraid that’ll end up in me getting broke again. And I have a very hard time talking to girls, sexually or not lol, advice on that would be nice too. I am single after 17 months in a good relationship and might want to talk to other women and try moving on.

So how do I go about having sex with girls without catching feelings and falling in love with them (not just from sex ofc, but learning who they are and stuff is what I get attracted too). All my friends have no problem sleeping with a girl then never seeing her again until maybe a couple months later for same thing. It amazes me, when I tried it for the first time, after losing my virginity, I had sex with my now ex before we started dated, I ended up growing to love her, and I don’t want that every time I hook up.

Tl;Dr—— I have never had a hookup that just stayed a hookup, how do I keep from getting attracted to the girls I sleep with? Also,how tf do I get girls to think I’m attractive, even if I’m not super pretty or masculine 😢 Thank you much appreciated

I am pretty damn inexperienced in the sexual field. I had a gf and we had good sex, she said I was great and probs best she’s had bc I asked and listen to what she liked and whatnot, so that boosted my confidence. Other than that, the time I lost my virginity, which the first time was pretty miserable lmao.

I feel like I have good potential to have sex with lots of women, but afraid that’ll end up in me getting broke again. And I have a very hard time talking to girls, sexually or not lol, advice on that would be nice too. I am single after 17 months in a good relationship and might want to talk to other women and try moving on.

So how do I go about having sex with girls without catching feelings and falling in love with them (not just from sex ofc, but learning who they are and stuff is what I get attracted too). All my friends have no problem sleeping with a girl then never seeing her again until maybe a couple months later for same thing. It amazes me, when I tried it for the first time, after losing my virginity, I had sex with my now ex before we started dated, I ended up growing to love her, and I don’t want that every time I hook up.

Tl;Dr—— I have never had a hookup that just stayed a hookup, how do I keep from getting attracted to the girls I sleep with? Also,how tf do I get girls to think I’m attractive, even if I’m not super pretty or masculine 😢 Thank you much appreciated