I’ll do a quick summary if any of this is relevant. I was virgin til about 30, I honestly didn’t care that much about it until a couple years ago then I overnight felt unbelievable amount of shame and embarrassment over it and needed to change that. Lost virginity to an escort, saw her a couple times. It was awkward but I got over my intense sexual anxiety.
Met someone on OLD who we click well and started being FWB. She has a sexual issue with tightness so we’ve been working towards sex for a couple months, just doing a lot of mouth and hands stuff. We just now can start trying for sex…and I’m the problem.
I can get an erection no problem, but I go out in a condom and trying to insert in missionary and I’m losing it quick. I start to spiral from embarrassment and I totally lose it. It’s like I have no spacial dick awareness if I can’t see it. Now, my dick isn’t anything special, probably about 5 inches so it’s no porno dick. But it’s not a micro, I know plenty of people have this size and can still have penetrative sex. We tried doggy at one point because I thought that would be easier but it didn’t work much better.
So is this a size problem? Is this just something that can be hard at any age? I’m already so embarrassed of the time I’ve missed out on I don’t wanna ruin what I have left. Porn makes it seem so easy
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r/sex I’ll do a quick summary if any of this is relevant. I was virgin til about 30, I honestly didn’t care that much about it until a couple years ago then I overnight felt unbelievable amount of shame and embarrassment over it and needed to change that. Lost virginity to an escort, saw her a couple times. It was awkward but I got over my intense sexual anxiety. Met someone on OLD who we click well and started being FWB. She has a sexual issue with tightness so we’ve been working towards sex for a couple months, just doing a lot of mouth and hands stuff. We just now can start trying for sex…and I’m the problem. I can get an erection no problem, but I go out in a condom and trying to insert in missionary and I’m losing it quick. I start to spiral from embarrassment and I totally lose it. It’s like I have no spacial dick awareness if I can’t see it. Now, my dick isn’t anything special, probably about 5 inches so it’s no porno dick. But it’s not a micro, I know plenty of people have this size and can still have penetrative sex. We tried doggy at one point because I thought that would be easier but it didn’t work much better. So is this a size problem? Is this just something that can be hard at any age? I’m already so embarrassed of the time I’ve missed out on I don’t wanna ruin what I have left. Porn makes it seem so easy submitted by /u/throwaway150981 [link] [comments]
I’ll do a quick summary if any of this is relevant. I was virgin til about 30, I honestly didn’t care that much about it until a couple years ago then I overnight felt unbelievable amount of shame and embarrassment over it and needed to change that. Lost virginity to an escort, saw her a couple times. It was awkward but I got over my intense sexual anxiety.
Met someone on OLD who we click well and started being FWB. She has a sexual issue with tightness so we’ve been working towards sex for a couple months, just doing a lot of mouth and hands stuff. We just now can start trying for sex…and I’m the problem.
I can get an erection no problem, but I go out in a condom and trying to insert in missionary and I’m losing it quick. I start to spiral from embarrassment and I totally lose it. It’s like I have no spacial dick awareness if I can’t see it. Now, my dick isn’t anything special, probably about 5 inches so it’s no porno dick. But it’s not a micro, I know plenty of people have this size and can still have penetrative sex. We tried doggy at one point because I thought that would be easier but it didn’t work much better.
So is this a size problem? Is this just something that can be hard at any age? I’m already so embarrassed of the time I’ve missed out on I don’t wanna ruin what I have left. Porn makes it seem so easy
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