Bf doesn’t initiate anymore, suggestions on why? /u/PrettyDeadSpice Sex

We’ve been together for 8 years and in our 20s. He’s always has a high drive and is always down when I ask or start. I’d like things to happen naturally by being suggestive and building up to but it doesn’t work and we just end up going bed, I have to ask. I’ve had to ask recently a lot, he doesn’t anymore. I want him to start kissing me or touching me, doesn’t have to lead to anything but just more physical affection.

I’ve tried waiting but then I’m waiting days and get frustrated and give up. It’s very confusing as well cause he doesn’t turn me down but isn’t effected by me not asking him for days. In the days I’m waiting I’ve flashed a bit or sat with my legs open across from him on the sofa giving him a visual prompt, he does acknowledge and smiles or says it looks nice but that’s it.

Any suggestions or advice please

submitted by /u/PrettyDeadSpice
[link] [comments]

​r/sex We’ve been together for 8 years and in our 20s. He’s always has a high drive and is always down when I ask or start. I’d like things to happen naturally by being suggestive and building up to but it doesn’t work and we just end up going bed, I have to ask. I’ve had to ask recently a lot, he doesn’t anymore. I want him to start kissing me or touching me, doesn’t have to lead to anything but just more physical affection. I’ve tried waiting but then I’m waiting days and get frustrated and give up. It’s very confusing as well cause he doesn’t turn me down but isn’t effected by me not asking him for days. In the days I’m waiting I’ve flashed a bit or sat with my legs open across from him on the sofa giving him a visual prompt, he does acknowledge and smiles or says it looks nice but that’s it. Any suggestions or advice please submitted by /u/PrettyDeadSpice [link] [comments] 

We’ve been together for 8 years and in our 20s. He’s always has a high drive and is always down when I ask or start. I’d like things to happen naturally by being suggestive and building up to but it doesn’t work and we just end up going bed, I have to ask. I’ve had to ask recently a lot, he doesn’t anymore. I want him to start kissing me or touching me, doesn’t have to lead to anything but just more physical affection.

I’ve tried waiting but then I’m waiting days and get frustrated and give up. It’s very confusing as well cause he doesn’t turn me down but isn’t effected by me not asking him for days. In the days I’m waiting I’ve flashed a bit or sat with my legs open across from him on the sofa giving him a visual prompt, he does acknowledge and smiles or says it looks nice but that’s it.

Any suggestions or advice please

submitted by /u/PrettyDeadSpice
[link] [comments] 

Leave a Reply

Your email address will not be published. Required fields are marked *