Hello!
I’ll try to keep this as short as possible. I grew up with a porn addiction and it has caused my perceptions of sex to be a little altered, and now that porn is no longer a part of my life, I’m on my journey towards happy, healthy, safe sex. Sex is new to me, I lost my virginity just in December. From then and now I have been able to pick up on some of the ways porn has impacted my perceptions of sex, and in one of those ways is through moaning. I moan the most when receiving oral, but depending on the positions — not as much for penis in vagina sex. Some position’s definitely have me making some noise much more than others, like doggy vs missionary. I have caught myself sometimes making noise when I didn’t necessarily need to be, and it makes me feel bad, it makes me feel as if I’m lying or as if I’m not enjoying the sex. It mixes in with the fact that my mind sometimes is not fully on what I’m doing (my partner and I both are young and still live with our partners so I very much worry about getting caught). Sometimes I make noise because the girls in porn were making sounds like that so why am I not? But then I realize that I’m not the girls in porn, I’m me, and that’s as sexy as it is. My partner loves me and he loves the sounds I make, but I want to know how I can let go of this “need” to always be making noise when having sex, and how I can be more in the moment with him and just let everything happen naturally.
I hope this makes sense, any feedback would be appreciated.
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r/sex Hello! I’ll try to keep this as short as possible. I grew up with a porn addiction and it has caused my perceptions of sex to be a little altered, and now that porn is no longer a part of my life, I’m on my journey towards happy, healthy, safe sex. Sex is new to me, I lost my virginity just in December. From then and now I have been able to pick up on some of the ways porn has impacted my perceptions of sex, and in one of those ways is through moaning. I moan the most when receiving oral, but depending on the positions — not as much for penis in vagina sex. Some position’s definitely have me making some noise much more than others, like doggy vs missionary. I have caught myself sometimes making noise when I didn’t necessarily need to be, and it makes me feel bad, it makes me feel as if I’m lying or as if I’m not enjoying the sex. It mixes in with the fact that my mind sometimes is not fully on what I’m doing (my partner and I both are young and still live with our partners so I very much worry about getting caught). Sometimes I make noise because the girls in porn were making sounds like that so why am I not? But then I realize that I’m not the girls in porn, I’m me, and that’s as sexy as it is. My partner loves me and he loves the sounds I make, but I want to know how I can let go of this “need” to always be making noise when having sex, and how I can be more in the moment with him and just let everything happen naturally. I hope this makes sense, any feedback would be appreciated. submitted by /u/ratpoisoning [link] [comments]
Hello!
I’ll try to keep this as short as possible. I grew up with a porn addiction and it has caused my perceptions of sex to be a little altered, and now that porn is no longer a part of my life, I’m on my journey towards happy, healthy, safe sex. Sex is new to me, I lost my virginity just in December. From then and now I have been able to pick up on some of the ways porn has impacted my perceptions of sex, and in one of those ways is through moaning. I moan the most when receiving oral, but depending on the positions — not as much for penis in vagina sex. Some position’s definitely have me making some noise much more than others, like doggy vs missionary. I have caught myself sometimes making noise when I didn’t necessarily need to be, and it makes me feel bad, it makes me feel as if I’m lying or as if I’m not enjoying the sex. It mixes in with the fact that my mind sometimes is not fully on what I’m doing (my partner and I both are young and still live with our partners so I very much worry about getting caught). Sometimes I make noise because the girls in porn were making sounds like that so why am I not? But then I realize that I’m not the girls in porn, I’m me, and that’s as sexy as it is. My partner loves me and he loves the sounds I make, but I want to know how I can let go of this “need” to always be making noise when having sex, and how I can be more in the moment with him and just let everything happen naturally.
I hope this makes sense, any feedback would be appreciated.
submitted by /u/ratpoisoning
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