I don’t like sex and bleed every time I get any sort of penetration…Is there something wrong with me? /u/Heavy_Recording_980 Sex

hi, i’m 23f and every time i have sex or just get any type of penetration (fingering)….i bleed. (Mind you, i’ve only ever had sex twice LOL). I lost my virginity in high school and haven’t had sex since until last night so it’s been a while. I was thinking maybe that’s why i bled but then i realized even back in high school when i would just get fingered, i would bleed as well. And both times i was not on my period. It’s honestly pretty embarrassing and gross. I also feel like i don’t feel any type of pleasure when i have sex, like it never gets better the entire time of me doing it. I lay there and just wait until it’s over. I feel like im just there while my partner is literally having the time of his life and it sucks because i want it to feel good too. what the hell is wrong with me!!

hi, i’m 23f and every time i have sex or just get any type of penetration (fingering)….i bleed. (Mind you, i’ve only ever had sex twice LOL). I lost my virginity in high school and haven’t had sex since until last night so it’s been a while. I was thinking maybe that’s why i bled but then i realized even back in high school when i would just get fingered, i would bleed as well. And both times i was not on my period. It’s honestly pretty embarrassing and gross. I also feel like i don’t feel any type of pleasure when i have sex, like it never gets better the entire time of me doing it. I lay there and just wait until it’s over. I feel like im just there while my partner is literally having the time of his life and it sucks because i want it to feel good too. what the hell is wrong with me!!