Ok so my gf and I (both girls) have been together for a couple months and we’ve had sex a handful of times but I’m not one of those times did I enjoy myself. Don’t get me wrong, I love giving her pleasure and she always cums multiple times and later she compliments me on how good I am. We’re pretty young and we’re each other’s first time. I have never done this with anyone before but I wanted to make sure I made her feel good so I did a lot of research and I masturbate often so I know what I’m doing. Her on the other hand..it’s complicated. I don’t know what to do cause I have tried communicating with her multiple times about this and every time she just apologizes and promises to do better but she never does. The first time I brought it up, it wasn’t even about sex yet, we were just in the making out phase and I brought up to her how I didn’t like always being the one on top and how difficult it is for me to top since I’m a very submissive bottom, but ik she also enjoys being a bottom so I’m extremely willing to be a switch for her. I’m a very kinky person but I understand she is not so we were taking things slow and she asked for patience as she had never done any of this before. I understood and tried to move on. However I kept having to be the dominant one and literally had to beg her to finger me after I had literally made cum like twice from eating her out. And then when she does finger me it’s bad. The whole thing is hard cause she doesn’t even know how to properly kiss, and then as every wlw does, she makes fun of men for not knowing where the clit is even tho she very much so doesn’t know where mine is. I try to be patient but I don’t know what to do anymore. I have stopped fake moaning, I have tried to move her hand and guide it, I have talked to her like omg I just want her to be better. I’m just now so mad and like sexually frustrated cause I’ve brought all of this up multiple times and she doesn’t act on her promises to do better and I’m SO done. Why can’t she js do better? Please help, what can I possibly do.
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r/sex Ok so my gf and I (both girls) have been together for a couple months and we’ve had sex a handful of times but I’m not one of those times did I enjoy myself. Don’t get me wrong, I love giving her pleasure and she always cums multiple times and later she compliments me on how good I am. We’re pretty young and we’re each other’s first time. I have never done this with anyone before but I wanted to make sure I made her feel good so I did a lot of research and I masturbate often so I know what I’m doing. Her on the other hand..it’s complicated. I don’t know what to do cause I have tried communicating with her multiple times about this and every time she just apologizes and promises to do better but she never does. The first time I brought it up, it wasn’t even about sex yet, we were just in the making out phase and I brought up to her how I didn’t like always being the one on top and how difficult it is for me to top since I’m a very submissive bottom, but ik she also enjoys being a bottom so I’m extremely willing to be a switch for her. I’m a very kinky person but I understand she is not so we were taking things slow and she asked for patience as she had never done any of this before. I understood and tried to move on. However I kept having to be the dominant one and literally had to beg her to finger me after I had literally made cum like twice from eating her out. And then when she does finger me it’s bad. The whole thing is hard cause she doesn’t even know how to properly kiss, and then as every wlw does, she makes fun of men for not knowing where the clit is even tho she very much so doesn’t know where mine is. I try to be patient but I don’t know what to do anymore. I have stopped fake moaning, I have tried to move her hand and guide it, I have talked to her like omg I just want her to be better. I’m just now so mad and like sexually frustrated cause I’ve brought all of this up multiple times and she doesn’t act on her promises to do better and I’m SO done. Why can’t she js do better? Please help, what can I possibly do. submitted by /u/First_Doctor_7817 [link] [comments]
Ok so my gf and I (both girls) have been together for a couple months and we’ve had sex a handful of times but I’m not one of those times did I enjoy myself. Don’t get me wrong, I love giving her pleasure and she always cums multiple times and later she compliments me on how good I am. We’re pretty young and we’re each other’s first time. I have never done this with anyone before but I wanted to make sure I made her feel good so I did a lot of research and I masturbate often so I know what I’m doing. Her on the other hand..it’s complicated. I don’t know what to do cause I have tried communicating with her multiple times about this and every time she just apologizes and promises to do better but she never does. The first time I brought it up, it wasn’t even about sex yet, we were just in the making out phase and I brought up to her how I didn’t like always being the one on top and how difficult it is for me to top since I’m a very submissive bottom, but ik she also enjoys being a bottom so I’m extremely willing to be a switch for her. I’m a very kinky person but I understand she is not so we were taking things slow and she asked for patience as she had never done any of this before. I understood and tried to move on. However I kept having to be the dominant one and literally had to beg her to finger me after I had literally made cum like twice from eating her out. And then when she does finger me it’s bad. The whole thing is hard cause she doesn’t even know how to properly kiss, and then as every wlw does, she makes fun of men for not knowing where the clit is even tho she very much so doesn’t know where mine is. I try to be patient but I don’t know what to do anymore. I have stopped fake moaning, I have tried to move her hand and guide it, I have talked to her like omg I just want her to be better. I’m just now so mad and like sexually frustrated cause I’ve brought all of this up multiple times and she doesn’t act on her promises to do better and I’m SO done. Why can’t she js do better? Please help, what can I possibly do.
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